Recent content by BigBadJon

Spotting a chick that is hot for you in a club is EASY. There are usually so many people around that if you even THINK for half a second she is checking you out, she IS checking you out. The vibe you get is no coincidence. As I recall fully 100% of the time that I have gotten a VIBE from a...

I only tried this once and I lucked out on the timing of it getting me a HUGE amount of points. My last LT girlfriend visited me at my house for the first time, before we were a couple, during the time we were just starting to hang out. I walked her out to her car. She got in, and as I was...

Carmex is the best....just realized they make it in a tube as well as a tub...much more convenient to carry around. Back on subject, seems like everone around here agrees that nice shoes are key. Ralfus, I remember posting about the importance of nice shoes as well....I guess we get no respect...

He may be headed this way.

I just want to second Peaks advice. I can tell you from firsthand knowledge that the ONLY time I get unsolicited atention from females is when I am LEAST EXPECTING it. Only when I have something else on my mind. Believe it or not it happens quite often, and I can make the correlation between...

Poet, I hate to look at the glass as half empty, but in this case I have no choice. It doesn't matter how sweet, wonderful, caring, or otherwise PERFECT this woman is, she has PROBLEMS that you CANNOT solve. Life is complicated enough when you have to deal with your OWN set of problems, let...

Ain't that the luck! Any time you find a good one there has to be some sort of hang up. I'll make this brief. All you can do is give her space. Tell her you are there for her if she needs anything. Wait it out, but at the same time LIVE YOUR OWN LIFE. She obviously has problems that you...

First off...ASS KICKING POST! As for your problem, it's all in your head. It makes little difference to women how well you dance. Not to say that having a little rhythm isn't good, but it is way more important to be comfortable with your surroundings and project that you are enjoying yourself...

ACTION, I may have already done that had it not been for the fact we have houseguests, and the feeling I need to analyze the situation before I take further initiative. Patroclus, I likely will look for another living arrangement to have as a backup in case this blows up in my face. Worst case...

Oh yea, and did I mention that living together makes it nearly impossible to make excuses for not being able to hang out with her? If a random chick asks you to do something, you can give about any excuse, then sit home and watch a movie if you want. It's a little trickier for me. I am trying...

The problem is THIS GIRL IS WAY INTO ME. I don't think a day has gone by where she hasn't left a little note or something for me in the morning (you know, like reminders for things, stuff like that). Calls me at work to tell me something trivial. She takes EVERY opportunity to be around me, I...

Haha, I stayed at a Holiday Inn one time. It didn't make me any smarter, but the bed was pretty damn comfortable. I suppose I should also mention the fact that I really enjoy hanging out with her. If I hadn't moved in with her I could even see some future potential. NSS, at this point I don't...

I'm fully prepared to get yelled at by you guys, but after you slam me I would appreciate some input. So, I finally got situated in my new house. My last post explains a little about the situation http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/004208.html. I had a feeling she likes me, but I had no...

Very good point DJbe. I missed that one. A woman's "super hero" always turns out to be a normal person with flaws just like the rest of us. Survivor, I say shoot for any type of interest in the begining. I still say that the best relationships are going to BUILD over time. A fire that burns too...