Recent content by benogan

read some stuff on end game. are you escalating physically during Day1?

I slept with this girl. We work in the same building so obviously we see each other frequently. We flirt, we get lunch, etc. Usually it is me and her and like 5 other girls getting lunch. I flirt with all the girls. Anyways. She's stayed over twice and road into work with me. I want to keep...

"I dont want to hurt you" Look her in the eyes, hold. Hold. Laugh hysterically.

spin plates. She'll text you. just stay distant for a while. Be busy. When she keeps asking to get together it's time.

I have been flirting with a girl from a different department at work quite frequently. My birthday being yesterday, I asked her if she and some friends wanted to come out with mine. She said yes and gave me her number. We texted a little, just teasing about stuff. then the day of my birthday I...

Just tell her your girlfriend will be home early.

If you're sleeping with a girl, and she wants to get more serious, could telling her you don't want a relationship cause you're still in love with your ex increase her interest? Make her want to chase you more to get you to get over her. Maybe she'll think "what does this girl have that i...

If she texted you and called 5 minutes later she hadn't lost interest. Just spin plates. Go out to the bar with another girl, hit on women around her. You've ****ed twice. Don't get all in your head about this one. She might just be one to next. If you don't grow attached you can keep her around...

Ive been using okcupid for a while now. My opener gets me a pretty good response rate. lots of times the girls say 'that was ****ing amazing' anyways. I usually push for their number pretty quick. Some give it. Others dont. But anyways. I can't seem to get any dates setup. Advice?

Man, I've been there. I actually worked stock in retail for a while. Now I'm a manager and a girl that works there flirts with me quite a bit. I tease her, talk to her often, and eventually we started messaging outside of work, but just stupid work related teasing. I gave her my number said to...

Thank you, thats honestly what i expected to hear when I wrote this. Do you think it's even worth saying something to her, or should i just stop contact with no explanation

hahaha no like miscarried mine

I broke up with a girl at the end of december. It's been tough but I started focusing on myself, approaching, working hard, etc. We've had some limited contact, she went into the hospital last week and i wished her well. come to find out she was pregnant and miscarried. anyways after...

Ive done plenty of club game approaching before this latest relationship and beta backslide.

I am a recovering heroin addict. Although alcohol was never an issue for me, I have chosen to not drink to benefit my recovery, as well as my life balance. As a result, club game isn't really ideal for me. Sure if I go with a group of people I am friends with it is okay because they know my...