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Great post Pook! So true, so true. AD

Thanks Terminator. But make it once a month. Take care. AD

relapse, As soon as she realized you really loved her, her mission was over. Women are love seekers. As long as they are looking for love in you they will hang in there. But as soon as they find it, they are off with another dude to start the process over again. They must never be...

You only get one heart. One to a customer. But you keep treating your heart like an enemy instead of a friend. Would you let a friend get hurt time and time again without protecting your friend? I think not. So why do you keep leaving yourself wide open and leave your heart to take all...

I really said the conversation about YOU kills the Mystery. But too much convo usually leads to TOO MUCH personal disclosure. Hence the action dates. They are your insurance against your big mouth. Once they know all about you they get bored. You must reveal yourself slowly over many...

Hi IQ, That's what you do. You try to disclose as little info about you as possible. You do this by giving very general and VAGUE answers. Short and sweet. Then you turn the convo back to her. Her: Do first dates make you nervous? You: Once in a great while. How about you? Her: What kind of...

You are right. They just haven't learned "You don't know a Good One until you met a Bad One." They just don't know what pain is yet. They are too darn healthy!!! Also, they don't have a problem with the immutable Laws of Physics. But when it comes to the Laws of Dating they freak...

Great post BBJ!, It's not a RANDOM happening like you said. If you 'wing it' you get your wings clipped! Women CHOOSE certain types of men . That's the secret we have all been waiting for. The good part is that each of us has these qualities inside us already. We just have to...

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IQ, I'll have to answer this in a day or two because it's going to be a long answer. I will reply though. AD

BigBadJon, I'm glad someone understands what I'm talking about. The communication/action strategy is my own. But it is based on Men Are From Mars/ Women are from Venus by John Gray. This book is the best book ever written about relationships. Don't get married without reading it...

I keep telling you that 'signs' are unreliable and are a waste of time to look for. Women HIDE (!) their true feelings. They conceal them until they are absolutely sure. That process takes months and months in a relationship. And you want them to show it before? Never going to happen...

Exactly. I meant that you still have alot of control. The focus will be on you, not HIM as I advise guys here. If there is a guy you are not sure of, he will probably stick around for quite awhile before he realizes you only have a medium level of interest. With my advice a woman gets...

Sorry Pimpstress Keka. That is traditional dating wisdom. But it is simply not true. This is why nice guys give up their 50% in a relationship. The guy is IN CONTROL. The guy asks for your number. If he doesn't ask nothing happens. That's control. The guy keeps you waiting with you...