I'm 5'7" myself... statistically short. I also have a gap in my front teeth and wear glasses due to poor vision. Some girls have even called me funny looking.
Now I had a choice. I could either focus on all of these things and get depressed about how unfair life is..
OR
I could focus on my strengths, which far outweigh my weaknesses.
I encourage all you guys that are down in the dumps about these disadvantages to also pay attention to what makes you attractive. Remember, women are not just looking for one particular quality in a man, she is eyeing the whole package
For inspiration, here's a list of what I bring to the table on a character level:
• Charming & friendly
• Good conversationalist
• Good listener
• Sharp sense of humor
• A wealth of interesting things going on in my life
• Well educated
• Know exactly what I want
• Passionate about living
• Persistent in the pursuit of my goals
• NEVER bored, ALWAYS learning or having fun
• Strong sense of adventure
• Emotionally uninhibited
• Open-minded towards all subjects and people
Here's a list of what I offer physically:
• Clear complexion
• Exotic features
• Well proportioned and toned body
• Strong hands (surprisingly BIG turn-on for women)
• Healthy appetite..love to eat (and cook)
• Well groomed
• Fashion sensibility
• Wicked in the sack
You can pull out all the statistics you want about my deficiencies, but notice how much MORE I have going for me.. it makes my shortcomings seem trivial by comparison.
I've even managed to turn things around and appreciate my imperfections
• Glasses make me look intellectual and classy
• Being short only highlights how big of a character I am
• The gap in my teeth gives my smile character too..wouldn't change it for anything.
I'm not saying that looks dont play a factor.. they definitely do. If you are a midget, or have some kind of severe physical deformity, then yeah.. you really got your work cut out for you and maybe dating supermodels is not a realistic goal.
But I've seen pictures of some of you who complain about your appearance and all I see is a decent looking dude who is looking for a reason to fail.
I've said it countless times but:
Worrying about things you have no control over is a massive waste of personal power.. you could be investing that into making yourself attractive in hundreds of other ways.