To mods and admins here

[Von]

Didn't we all come here because we wanted help and keep our anynomousity because we feel we can't share it in real life with friends, or we don't have friends, or seek more unbiased advise.

Sure there is a lot of trolls and newbies.... A 7 days ''Wait'' period might be nice. (limit trolls, keep serious posters, have a short waiting time for the interest party)

This forum survives because there are people coming to it... the more barriers.... higher the quality or the more dedicated (including trolls) is a possibility but it would reduce the survival of this forum (hosting a site cost money and less tpeople, the lower the ads revenues... and the host on this site might need the money for real life stuff instead of online material and pull the plug)

This site is to teach and grow... the perk... you'll always have the same question from the newbies coming in... the same question you had at the start... the answer: Might be a good reminder

 

[TheVirtualMind]

Explain how this happens?

- So a guy on a random site named "SoSuave", with a random name of Poon Master, makes a thread about a chick named Sarah based on a relationship they had one time in a random part of Missouri. Sarah just randomly gets on the internet one day, randomly runs across "SoSuave", then randomly sees the Poon Master post, then randomly associates the Poon Master post with her "real life" situation with a guy named Derrick? She then randomly puts it together that Poon Master is Derrick?

- I have seen FAR WORSE shyt posted on Facebook than I have seen posted on here.

- If a guy doesn't want to put a pic of himself and a CHICK he's dated in his thumbnail, fine. But how about a dedicated section of the forum where people post their pics using a PhotoBucket link which CAN'T be traced? So when you have guys get up calling themselves the Poon Lord, saying everybody else is a beta fag.got who disagrees with his theories and how he's so ALPHA....he would actually have some sort of proof of how ALPHA he has been lately based on the lifestyle he's living?

These arguments of a guy is going to lose his job, lose his girl, lose his life, etc., etc.,.....because he made a damn thread on "Sosuave", is just ridiculous lol. Look under the surface of the argument at the substance of it, it makes no sense.

It's happened so many times before. We gets requests almost every other day for a poster to get a certain post, thread, or their entire account deleted because of situations like the one you mentioned.

Facebook is public. Instagram is public. Twitter is public. On here, you get to use an alias. Same with almost every other web forum.

Your whole argument makes no sense. Why does it bother you who does and does not have a picture? Just because someone posts a picture, does that make them more credible? More suave? Prior to the new forum upgrade, there were no avatars, no embedded files, nothing. Yet no one cared what the person looked like who was giving advice, if the advice was good and worked.

I'm willing to say this "issue" of yours is based on something that went on here. Especially given your example and recent issues you've had with certain posters. If you have such a big issue with someone over a picture (or something else) and your feelings got hurt, there is that "ignore" button that is widely available for you to use.