Part 1: I want to tell you a secret. In fact it's a big secret!!! In fact it's the most covered up secret in today's society and the seduction community. It's the answer to the question 'what are women attracted to?' The answer may stun you, so for the faint of heart, look away. Are you ready? Women are attracted to,.............Men!!!!! Shhhhhhhh!! Do not tell anyone the things that you know. For you are part of the one percent of one percent who are successful with women. Imagine if this was common knowledge. Women would be scarce, competition would be feirce!! But thankfully women are abundant thanks to the lack of men in todays society. Thankfully competition is weak for adrogynous males don't have the balls to compete. But I am a man! Why aren't I succeeding with women then? Your a man? How so? Because of the action figure in between your legs fully equiped with spring and retracting action? NO. That does not make you a man. Are your 21 or older? Do you shave your face? Do you vote? It really doesn't matter. These things do not make you a man. For some women do the exact same things. Ewww. But wait! I know! I am a man. I walk with my legs apart like in David DeAngelo's interview with dating gurus, and I talk with a deep voice like Ross Jeffries says, and I follow the advice on every 'how to be an alpha male' post and book. Sticking feathers up your butt does not make you a chicken!! Yes, these are things a natural man does, but it is the result of a man, not the process. Have you ever seen the guy that eminates power and focus? The dude that seems like their is always a direction in life? The person who is self controlled, over all loving, soundly confident, optimistic, is passionate about life, and is sprinkled with a bit of sexuallity? Of course you have. This is a man! No, not a god, not a male blessed with golden genetics and a perfect upbringing, not some damned 'alpha male' who spends his time on seduction sites. Just a man, no less, and no greater. He is the highest form of malehood. When women see him their hearts and panties melt, when guys see him he gets all the respect he deserves. People revere him as a perfect human, these people idol him, make methods out of him, sell tapes about how you can become him or at least an aspect of him. ie courageous, confident, powerfull, goal getting. Some poeple even make a whole underground community about him where they worship his godly presence, and try to become a man with such clever tactics such as ****y&funny and the three second rule. These people miss the point. The heart makes the man, not the method. Hmmm,.. changing from the outside within? Doesn't that seem like something a women would do? Put make-up on and nice clothes on the outside (ie. methods and tricks) to appear more beautiful (womenly) on the inside. Just as so with some of the seductionist. Some guys use tactics and actions to make himself more attractive (Manly). No, not the man. He is all substance, the outside world reflects his inner thoughts, his inner motivations, etc. Some of you already know this. Some of you are crying " Blasphemy, this is why we have 'inner game' post, books, and blogs!" These things definately help, but once again you miss the point. Inner game is the only really important part of this community as far as I'm concerned. They put in ideas into your head, that allows YOU to unleash the man within. This is good, this can really help ones life. But it isn't neccesarry. You are genectically designed to be a man. So why isn't every one endowed with a penis a man? Because at birth every manly action you would do would be condemned. Standing up for what you believe in, wrong, looking at women, wrong, succeeding, wrong. Instead it's; listen to everyone else's crap and bend over backwards to please everyone else, right, be ashamed of looking at women because that would mean that you have natural thoughts of procreating and passing on your genes and nobody else wants that, right, don't win because that would make Timmy upset that he lost and we are all 'winners', winning is wrong because it reflects everyone elses failures and you have to please everyone (See the first rule above), right. This kind of thinking isn't even good for women, who are far more submissive then men, naturally. This kind of thinking raises guys to be passive, adrogynous, and a loser, actually. (No, it's not name calling, it's fact.) All in all, a 'nice guy', or even something even more severe. And no, this isn't a 'nice guy' vs. 'jerk' post. This is a bullsh!t vs. man kind post. Like I said being a man is inherited, it doesn't come from guru's, post, and books. These can be a great catalyst, but it is not essential. The man within you is. It may take some of you a little bit of effort. It may take some of you a little bit of time. This is natural, for being a man pains some of you. And this is due to our mother (Even though she tried her hardest. Love you mommy.) and society that has anchored us into being women and not men. For they have set up painful barriers in front of every aspect that is male, and cute fluffy entrances in front of every aspect that is female. Don't let this fool you, this artificial pain can't stop you on your path to become something so natural and something so powerful. You will discover that once you man up even a little that nature is far more powerful than the suppression of our society.(I'm speaking for America, I don't know any other country) The barriers will start to fall easier and easier as you become stronger and stronger ie. a man. At first your inner women may cry out. "NO!" But you need not to pay attention, for you know women are whinny and to give into these demands will compromise your success and any one who knows a little bit about women or even David DeAngelo knows this. This may be due to the build up estrogen in the body, while some people listened to their bullcrap societal thoughts, ate Edements all day, and sat in front of the computer. But once you listen to the natural voice that voice that says, "You can do it. You are man. You are unlimited", eat some meat, and lift a very heavy object repeatedly or rock climb, or go out, any thing physical, something will shift in you. You will notice that weak presence, not in fear anymore, but in control and you will laugh at it's purpose and release it for good. I haven't even got to being a man yet, and I bet some of you will agree that you feel more manlier just reading about your true nature. This proves my point, knowledge isn't neccesary to become a man, it is already within you. I will never underplay knowledge, for such things are vastly important, but I will tell you this; books are only the substitute teachers to life greatest lessons. And as a man you have the power to live life, to change life, to be life. So be the person people write about, and don't waste your time reading about the person you want to be. So what is it to be a man? Well, one factor is his teststerone. Males and females are divided by basically one thing; testosterone (Male hormone) and estrogen (Female hormone). This is the main distinguish between the two sexes. It effects how we think, act, and respond. Yeah, some of you have heard this before, but you haven't heard the full story. Testosterone has many purposes, and all are good. A man must embrace his masculinity. This is indeed what makes him male. The effects of testosterone are: Being bigger, stronger, and faster than others (Jock build). This is why males are physically bigger than females, and usually more atheletically inclined. So the next time you see some dude whin "Oh, it's because he has a great body that all the girls like him." You might as well slap him. Yes, everyone knows it get's you more auditions, but it isn't the determining factor in relationships. And why do women like muscle bound jocks? Well, their bodies PROVE they are one with their testosterone, therfore they already show that they are more manlier, and usually because of the testosterone they are more confident and direct. (Remember when I said women are attracted to men? Keep that in mind) So he will get auditions, but if he suppresses his testosterone and masculinity in other ways (Turn wuss or AFC or Nice guy) he will be dumped, and fast. (Men attract women, Duh!) It makes you more courageous. Why do women like men who are go getters, direct, communicate interest, and are confident? Because that is the effect of testosterone. Men attract women, get the formula? A guy who isn't any of these are repulsive to women, for women do not like other women traped in a males body. It increases energy. Women love a man that radiates energy, and dash a bit of sexuality into it and your irresistible. These men can chanel their energy to anything of focus, including her. And why do women love this? Because they are submissive and they are affected by anything dominant, ie, a man. It is proven that when anyone starts to work out that their energy levels shoot up. Wanna know why? Because exercising increases testosterone. Plain and simple. The more testosterone in the body the greater the energy and the greater muscle to fat ratio is. It is a trait of a male to be energetic and lean or muscle bound. It is testosterone, it is male. So what are women attracted to? Yes, a man.