Ridiculous
There is no way I'm letting this go without a response. I realize this thread is 7 years old at this point, but I see that there are still posts all the way up to 2 years ago. So for all those who stumble upon it forever more (thanks to the power of internet caching) I feel a moral obligation to respond:
This guy (op) is a complete idiot.
That being said, here's why. I made every girl I've ever been with orgasm vaginally, and in many cases also many other ways such as the obvious ****oral, but also erogenously, cervically, and even anally. I've spent my short lifetime thusfar studying sexual and pleasure practices, and when I see foolish posts like this one, claiming to have the holy grail of female servitude, it frankly pisses me off.
Not so much because I doubt anything this poster is saying (though it is most likely bull****), but because it's just about the worst and most useless advice anyone can give. What works for one guy, MAY work for another sometimes, but there is no blanket catchall approach that guarantees success of anything, let alone sexual achievements.
The human body is very physically complex. And to further complicate the picture our psyche, emotional state, current mood, and even what we've eaten prior all play a factor in our status of arousal and potential states of pleasure.
On top of that, what this guy is offering is still not eluding to any method to MAKE a girl orgasm, it's a bad way to ALLOW a girl to orgasm while using you as a tool. Frankly, those girls most likely returned to him so they can use him for a quick ego boost while recovering from a failed pursuit of their "ideal catch" which clearly was not ever this dude. Now some guys can handle the means to an end argument, but I for one like knowing every woman I grace with my presence was chosen by me and shared a mutual attraction that has a much greater potential for prolonged physical satisfaction than a needy quicky in the back seat of a hooptie. But hey, maybe that's just me.
To be fair, I will break down why this "technique" might have been effective, for those of you who buy into it. It can be summed up in three simple concepts.
1. Said women are riding your junk because they are turned on by YOU (the poster) and not your most likely small ****.
2. Positioning yourself to give them ****oral stimulation during intercourse is again the same thing as using your hand or any other toy to give them a ****oral orgasm while enjoying the added pleasure of penetration.
3. You "trick" of stimulating her other body senses does work, but most likely they were going to orgasm from the situation in general and the "trick" just helped a little bit. Also, I assume you have a smaller penis, because anatomically a larger one in that position would not properly hit the "g-spot" and most girls tire quickly in that position as well as get soar if the guys **** is larger than 5" as it puts pressure on wrong part of the vaginal wall and can hit the cervix - at around 5 inches she will most likely be pleasantly distracted.
As for these girls returning to you, I can assure it had more to do with your personality being "easy and available" to them in the first place, and your "subservient" approach to sexually pleasing them than anything you did physically.
On that note let me make it very clear that women are generally LESS attracted to men who let them take control than the opposite. I'm glad it worked for you, but it won't work for most people. Women are drawn to strong and dominant men, not the opposite - unless they have issues, or need a pity ego boost.
Now all that being said, here is one piece of actually useful advice I can give those who are looking for a leg up in the battle against pleasing our feminine counterparts.
TURN THEM ON A LOT, THEN MAKE THEM WAIT FOR IT.
Sounds too simplistic I know and almost sarcastic, but I can't stress enough the effectiveness of building anticipation in granting a woman a powerful orgasmic experience. I'll break it down just a little bit further into "guy speak" for those of you who just don't get it.
In the most simple terms, just think of her body as a bar-b-q. Before you even get started she has to let you put some coals in. Consider that the getting her number/getting her to agree to a dating process.
After that you need to pour some lighter fluid. Consider that the "initial romance/courting" we all do in the early stages of getting to know someone.
Then that first kiss is like striking the match. Here is where it gets sticky for most guys. they assume that a small squirt of "lighter fluid" (aka courting) is enough to light the charcoal.... WRONG. Every good grilling master knows you need enough to get the coals started. Too much and you make the food taste bad, too little and you get nothing and have to start over.
Take your time and get it right. Then once the coals are lit, you have to figure out what kind of meal she/you are in the mood for. Steak requires a HOT grill at first, then a more smoldering temperature. Potatoes and other side dishes require more consistent smoldering temps. Ribs require consistently HOT.
Approach how you touch/caress her in the same manor. You want to BUILD HEAT(passion). if you rush to things your dinner will taste like **** and she will not be impressed. If you take your time and create a masterpiece she will savor it, relish in it, and want to come back for more. This is a much more ideal mind set than "let her bounce on your **** while you distract her by touching her sides"
One final note for those of you who think your **** is so uniquely amazing that all you need to do is flash it before her eyes, let her slobber all over it, then pump away like you are drilling for oil. THAT DOESN'T WORK, unless she is already so turned on sight of a blender could get the job done.
So either raise her temp to where the lightest touch is ecstasy, or take your time, even in the big thrust. (don't get me wrong, hard slamming is the best way to make your girl orgasm vaginally, but it's usually AFTER a considerable amount of slower more sensual thrusting. Change it up, switch positions, use different paces at different times, and focus on how she is responding, not how close you are to popping your cork.)
With practice and an attention to her state of arousal, any man can make any woman orgasm deeply, vaginally, and repeatedly. Study up and check your game players, and stop thinking these bull**** blitzkrieg maneuvers are good for anything but drunken college party bathrooms.
-tm
GOOD POST!!
