First post, long time reader. Normally I do a search and my problems are answered but got a slightly different situation.
Girl I met through social event 6 months ago, went on 3-4 dates and had sex, way earlier than she is used to and got a lot of LMR. Slept with her a few more times and she was seriously into me. Ended up getting distracted by another girl and this original girl decided I had ditched her and I kind of went along with it although that wasn't really what I wanted, just had too much on my plate at the time.
Stayed in contact and clearly have chemistry, few months go by and I'm trying to get her to hang out again. At first she seems happy and excited at the prospect, then says she wants to wait a while. Couple of weeks go by and she agrees to go out with me, all good, seems very keen again but I don't push her for anything. Keen to hang out again so we do, she can't come back to my place though due to a work report she has to get done (excuse.)
Didn't hear from her since (5 days) so start texting, says she has a hangover and needs some tlc. Multiple texts asking what I'm up to (texts 5 times in a row before I can reply) Offer to see her later for cuddles. She then ask why I'm treating her so nice lately when earlier in the year I treated her badly. Says it's always on her mind. I tell her to just enjoy it. She says it is hard to do that because she is worried Things are going to change again. I said ok, well I'm in later if you want the cuddles (trying to hold my frame for the interaction and not start justifying myself) and she didn't respond.
Has she lost interest or does she just need time and space? Won't text her again now until I hear from her but I'm confused as to whether it's a rejection or not.
Girl I met through social event 6 months ago, went on 3-4 dates and had sex, way earlier than she is used to and got a lot of LMR. Slept with her a few more times and she was seriously into me. Ended up getting distracted by another girl and this original girl decided I had ditched her and I kind of went along with it although that wasn't really what I wanted, just had too much on my plate at the time.
Stayed in contact and clearly have chemistry, few months go by and I'm trying to get her to hang out again. At first she seems happy and excited at the prospect, then says she wants to wait a while. Couple of weeks go by and she agrees to go out with me, all good, seems very keen again but I don't push her for anything. Keen to hang out again so we do, she can't come back to my place though due to a work report she has to get done (excuse.)
Didn't hear from her since (5 days) so start texting, says she has a hangover and needs some tlc. Multiple texts asking what I'm up to (texts 5 times in a row before I can reply) Offer to see her later for cuddles. She then ask why I'm treating her so nice lately when earlier in the year I treated her badly. Says it's always on her mind. I tell her to just enjoy it. She says it is hard to do that because she is worried Things are going to change again. I said ok, well I'm in later if you want the cuddles (trying to hold my frame for the interaction and not start justifying myself) and she didn't respond.
Has she lost interest or does she just need time and space? Won't text her again now until I hear from her but I'm confused as to whether it's a rejection or not.
