Paranoid of catching an STD

[Reyaj]

It sucks because I have opportunities to bang some pretty cute girls but this stops me.

The Charlie Sheen announcement of him having HIV didn't help. Plus I have a few friends that already caught herpes which seems to be common.

It sucks cause I want to fornicate with several women but I'm all of a sudden scared of catching an STD as it feels like God's punishment for being promiscuous. Hoping you all can talk some sense into me.

 

[FCB]

It sucks because I have opportunities to bang some pretty cute girls but this stops me.

The Charlie Sheen announcement of him having HIV didn't help. Plus I have a few friends that already caught herpes which seems to be common.

It sucks cause I want to fornicate with several women but I'm all of a sudden scared of catching an STD as it feels like God's punishment for being promiscuous. Hoping you all can talk some sense into me.

Yeaaaaah that's a lack of sense right there. God won't hurt you, not wearing a condom might though.

 

[El Payaso]

There are many steps you can take to prevent it.

Wear a condom.
Get tested and have your partner tested before you guys engage in sex.
Stick to one partner and be faithful.

These are some things you can do but it doesn't take out a big way for you to catch STDs which is your partner being unfaithful.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

I never met or heard or seen anyone agree to get tested together. Most STDs are harmless besides HIV. Herpes is a overblown skin irritation. Some people never even get a outbreak or know they have it. And if you do get outbreaks they get weaker and less painful everytime to the point you don't notice it. And this is what I heard from a doctor. Also read a article on Vice very interesting, most people have herpes and don't even know it. If you go out with 10 of your boys atleast 4-5 of them have herpes. HPV has 100 strains, most cure themselves with in a year or 2. The other strains cause warts......Chylmedia and Gonnerhea bacterial infections go to the clinic and get antibotics and it'll be gone in a week.

With that said strap it up when penetrating. If you want to for *******s you can to, but I never heard or seen of anyone doing that.

Scary thing is the last 4 ONS i had all of them chicks wanted me to penetrate them raw. My friends rarely use condoms either with chicks they meet, this generation might be the most STD infested ever

 

[l__i__l]

Wear a condom and accept it's part of life, there is potential of diseases everywhere.
When you ate at your last restaurant, guess how many different mouths that fork went in before yours?
Diseases are everywhere, don't let it prevent you from enjoying life.

 

[Reyaj]

This is still really hampering me.. Do you all not consider this when you have an opportunity to bang a hot chick? In other words is the feeling of getting the lay more important than the potential consequences?

 

[The Duke]

Out of all the girls I've had sechs with, there has been only one that mentioned anything about wearing a condom. That tells me the vast majority of people are not using condoms. The only ones that require condoms are the professionals!

Can you contract something..... for sure. Is it likely.....I don't think so.

 

[fastlife]

It sucks cause I want to fornicate with several women but I'm all of a sudden scared of catching an STD as it feels like God's punishment for being promiscuous. Hoping you all can talk some sense into me.

Guilt. Cognitive dissonance. Neuroses. Those are the issues YOU need to work on--and you need to separate those issues from STDs, which are a legitimate, albeit often overstated concern.

About the worst you'll do for yourself from heterosexual vaginal sex is herpes (which would SUCK and condoms are always a good idea; but that's hardly life-ending). Sheen got HIV from needles, most likely.

If you follow these guidelines, then you should be in good shape:

• Date younger. 18-20 y/o's, even if they've been promiscuous, most likely haven't had as large a range of sexual partners who've had a large range of sexual partners. Also girls in this age range, at least in the U.S., have been vaccinated against HPV which you WILL catch if you're sexually active (think 80% of people have it), so even though it's asymptomatic in males, you won't be subjecting these girls to the risk of ovarian cancer/infertility.
• Don't rawdog girls who work in bars or girls who are overtly slvtty. Pretty easy to tell--listen to your gut.
• Screen--before I sleep with a girl I always get to know what her relationship is like with her father, get a general idea of her past experience, whether she uses drugs or parties a lot. And I carry myself or totally eject accordingly (no matter how hot). I generally carry myself like IDGAF manwh0re of the year (though in reality I'm way too picky to be all that promiscuous) and girls are usually very, very straightforward about their pasts. Literally you can get all this info in 15 minutes to an hour.

 

[thatfeel]

Eh, I don't buy the crap that "most people have herpes and don't even know it". Just doesn't make sense if you think about it. Not that I care about herpes anyway, I agree it's just an annoying skin condition. But yeah OP, you getting HIV is a lot more likely if you fvck other dudes or share needles. Regarding women, transmission rates from female to male are extremely low. Just wear a condom, you'll be fine.

 

[playa99]

Wrap up. Every girl I've been with I've wrapped up at first. If you are that concerned, it is the solution.

I know a guy who went to Ayia Napa over a summer and fvcked a different girl every night, he got chlamydia a fair few times. You are highly unlikely to catch something sinister.

 

[corrector]

If you are worried about STDs then it is best to just stay away from the whole thing and just stick with one partner that you know 100% is STD free.

At the end of the day, if you catch something, like anti-bacterial resistant Gonorreah (yes, some strains can't be treated), or anything else, then you suffer alone with it.

 

[Dingo]

Become one of those "incel" people... You won't have to worry about it....

 

[corrector]

Become one of those "incel" people... You won't have to worry about it....

You don't become "incel", you become "vocel". Vocel is voluntary celibacy by choice and having full knowledge of the risks and consequences involved and making an informed decision. In this case, if he is celibate, he is making an informed decision that the risk-reward is not worth it. He would be incel if he doesn't have a choice in the matter (i.e. the women would 100% reject him so that rational process would be irrelevant).

Also, I'd argue that "incels" are actually at a higher risk of contracting an STD since there is a huge chance of seeking out escorts or prostitutes who are loaded with STDs. A noncel may not likely go that far and wouldn't likely deal with women who have been with a large amount of men or may have real conquests of women who are virgins or been with very few men or are the guy mostly faithful women cheat on.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I have a few theories of my own, just guesses from experience.

STDs are largely about one's immune system. Most of them can be beaten back by one's own immune system if it is strong enough. HIV was so deadly, because that;s how it attacks. Condoms reduce HSV & HPV transmission by about 50%. So everyone who has had sex about twice has been exposed to them. But we don't all have those diseases, because our immune system has overcome them.

I've had FB relationships with girls who have lay counts well into the triple digits, never used a condom, and been fine. I'm sure my "d!ck brother" count is in the thousands. I was married to a woman with HSV2 for seven years, never used a condom, and never got it. I should have every STD, but I don't. There is more going on here than infection rate statistics. I think immune system is the key.

The best you're going to do with a girl is one who #1 is not fvcking anyone else, #2 likes you enough to tell you if she thinks she has anything, and #3 is not a complete moron who will not notice she has an STD. Right now my sex life is two, sometimes 3-4, house wives who only see me and I don't use a condom with, because I am their only other guy. I also sometimes fvck another girl who I know fvcks other guys, so I use a condom with her. I have a 21 y/o girl living on my couch right now. We used to fvck, but after learning what a huge slvt she is...she just fvcks whoever is there when she is drunk...I'm scared to put my d!ck in her any more, condom or not. So my policy has a lot to do with the woman.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

I agree its about peoples immune system

 

[Hermit]

Only sleep with clean woman! I always do a back ground check on the girl before I ever consider ridding bareback! Basically find out if she's a slag, this is easy with social media nowadays.

Only once have I thought to myself during sex that my C0ck was going to rot off... never again!

 

[marmel75]

It sucks because I have opportunities to bang some pretty cute girls but this stops me.

The Charlie Sheen announcement of him having HIV didn't help. Plus I have a few friends that already caught herpes which seems to be common.

It sucks cause I want to fornicate with several women but I'm all of a sudden scared of catching an STD as it feels like God's punishment for being promiscuous. Hoping you all can talk some sense into me.

Wear a condom and don't bang super slvts...I've fvcked plenty of chicks raw and never got anything, so I think you are making way too big of a deal about it...

It would be like saying I'm afraid to drive because some of my friends got in accidents

 

[Desdinova]

Herpes is a overblown skin irritation. Some people never even get a outbreak or know they have it. And if you do get outbreaks they get weaker and less painful everytime to the point you don't notice it. And this is what I heard from a doctor. Also read a article on Vice very interesting, most people have herpes and don't even know it. If you go out with 10 of your boys atleast 4-5 of them have herpes. HPV has 100 strains, most cure themselves with in a year or 2. The other strains cause warts

I concur. I have both, and that's pretty much my experience. There's worse things to catch than Herpes and HPV, and I'm not necessarily talking about STDs.

Eh, I don't buy the crap that "most people have herpes and don't even know it".

If you had Chicken Pox, then you've got Herpes.
If you get cold sores, then you have Herpes.

My GF decided to get tested after we started having sex. She came up clean for HSV-2 (which is what I have) but tested positive for HSV-1. She had absolutely no clue that she had it.

 

[PantyWhisperer]

Somebody already beat me to it but I agree that Charlie Sheen likely got HIV from needles. I've gone raw a bunch of times with really high partner count women, and so far - knock on wood, not a thing. Nothing. No herpes no HPV nothing.
However, I did allegedly knock one up so there's the best reason for wearing a condom, unless your pull out game is strong.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Somebody already beat me to it but I agree that Charlie Sheen likely got HIV from needles. I've gone raw a bunch of times with really high partner count women, and so far - knock on wood, not a thing. Nothing. No herpes no HPV nothing.
However, I did allegedly knock one up so there's the best reason for wearing a condom, unless your pull out game is strong.

I've caught chlamidia twice and not even high partner counts, like 39 ladies. It's very painful if it's in there for a while and when they test you with the swab the most intense pain ever. I'd never intentionally catch that crap!