My girlfriend's vagina is a bit loose...ladies...anyone...advice please I'll get right into it. I'm 28, Afro-american. Haven't had too many sexual partners. Been dating my girlfriend (caucasian, 26) for about 6 months now. Things are going well and sex just gets better and better. Here's my issue. I notice during sex, that my girl's vagina isnt very tight around my ****. It's not loose. Just not super tight (except for when she contracts it, which always feels great.). I can ***, just not as fast as if I masterbated. I'm about 7.5-8 inches long and about 6 inches around, so I'm a decent size. The first time my girlfriend saw my **** she said I had a "big ****". It sounded like she hadn't seen one my size before. Kind of made me feel good. And that was that. BUt I've got some recent info from her that's made me feel not so great...I'll explain in a minute. I'm just wondering if her vagina should feel tighter or possible reasons that it might not. I've got an insecurity about my size for the first time and I'm a bit worried for some reason. I also worried that I can't pleasure her as much as she'd like if I'm not stretching her out enough. Background on my girlfriend - My girl has been with 5 guys other than me in her entire life. I'll go back just far enough to give some perspective. First guy was when she was 15 and it was a one-time thing becuase the experience was so bad for them (they were dating) that they just never did it again. Her next boyfriend was for 3 years from when she was 17-20. Then she went for 2 years without sex before meeting her next boyfriend and they dated for a year(this is the important on e here because she was in love with him). She remained single and without sex for another two years before she dated another guy short term. We met about two months after that ended. I want the sex with my girlfriend to be the best that either of us has ever had so I ask her what kinds of things she likes, but she's not entirely comfortable or open so that doesn't really go anywhere. Then one night we were lying in bed and talking about a problem we had with her vagina ripping a bit towards the back lips during sex. I asked if it had ever happened before and she said that it happened one of the first times that she had sex. Her boyfriend at the time was kind of small so it wasn't super bad, but it still hurt quite a bit. I thought that was all she would say, but then she mentioned her second boyfriend (the guy from a few years ago). Apparently he was about 6' but very skinny, only about 150-160lbs(I'm 5"10, 190lbs), but she mentioned that he was unprportional below the belt. She also said that he gave her the worst burning sensation she's ever had the first time they had sex. So bad that she had to go to the clinic to get something for the burn. SHe said that it was because he was big. After that, they had no problems and no more burning during sex. She said that she's also learned since then how to relax down there and lossen things up a bit. NOw this is my whole issue - she's never compared us directly, but I keep thinking about maybe this guy was bigger than me. And it bugs me that maybe the reason my girls' vagina isn't so tight is because this guy's **** stretched it out. I guess it's made me a bit insecure for the first time. I should explain though, that I'm on blood pressure medication since just before we started having sex and I've not been able to get a fully hard erection for the entire time that we've been having sex. It's hard enough for penetration, but I still can't do some of the positions like (woman on top, which she loves), but I've added a few other like the butterfly which she seems to REALLY love. She's actually told me that in the past she used to only like having sex for a short period of time, but with me she likes it longer and that it feels good all the time and not just in the first few minutes. SHe also said that she likes it best with me ( I took this to mean that I'm the best she's had). Anyway, that's bit off topic. WE're pretty into each other, we're not at the I love you stage, but we're close. I guess this thing is bothering me because I know that she was in love with her ex and actually for a time thought he would be the one. In a way I guess I kept comparing myself to him and worry that I might fall short. I just don't want it to be in the sex or size department. Anyways, what do you think. I read somewhere that the only thing that really changes the size of a vagina is childbirth. Is she loose just because it's the natural size of her vagina or is it because this guy stretched her out almost 3 years ago? Thanks. M.