My Dyck Wouldn't Get Up - Questions

[Tenacity]

Urghh, so it's about 4:15 am and I'm still a little drunk. But I just feel so god damn bad. A plate I had been working on for a minute (about 3 weeks) that I feel fits pretty much everything (or let's say, most) of what I'm looking for long term.

I finally get this chick in the bed and my god damn dyck won't get up. We had some drinks and were a bit tipsy before hand. I've had this situation happen before with about two other chicks, but most of the time my dyck gets up with just a bit of foreplay and when the girl goes down on me.

I feel so bad right now. Very bad. I just feel as though I just.....I don't know.....let myself down from a MANHOOD standpoint. The girl was looking at me weird after having tried damn near everything to get me hard and I just wouldn't do it. We even tried to fvck raw (and I don't fvck raw) and it STILL wouldn't stay up.

I do jack off just about every other day, it helps when I'm getting ready to take a nap. Maybe that's causing it? I don't know, it hasn't caused it before.

Has anybody ever run into this and if so, what are some solutions for this? Urghhh...I'm about to go to bed, I feel like a complete fvcking loser/piece of shyt right now.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Hey bro, there is this thing we call "whiskey d1ck", it means you drank too much. Alcohol negatively influences erections, and if your drunk enough it can be very tough to impossible to get hard. You can't worry about it.

 

[Tamura]

Nothing wrong with wanking, but everyday will affect your sensitiveness and takes your edge. You're not 20 anymore man.

 

[Malcontent]

Never have more than a couple drinks if fvcking is in the evening plans.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Never have more than a couple drinks if fvcking is in the evening plans.

Yeah cause even if it gets up it will be weaker.

 

[logicallefty]

I've had this happen here and there. Not only from drinking but from stress, like a long week at work. I just go down on her and give her the best O with oral and knock her ass out. If she says anything about me not blowing my load I say "ahh it's ok there will be more for you next time".

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I've had this happen here and there. Not only from drinking but from stress, like a long week at work. I just go down on her and give her the best O with oral and knock her ass out. If she says anything about me not blowing my load I say "ahh it's ok there will be more for you next time".

Even if your stressed, you can set back in a chair and let her relax you orally.

 

[SteR]

Had the exact same thing happen the other day ie. I finally got a girl that ticked all the boxes into bed and suddenly I wasn't performing. My solution was just to tell her we weren't going to have sex.

Later on that evening we were just kissing / fooling around.. one thing led to another and I was rock solid. I think once I relieved myself of the burden of performing everything was fine.

It's been said before but you just need to relax. Don't put so much pressure on yourself (which can be easier said than done, I know).

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Tenacity,
As Old Will said some 500 years ago..."Much drink.......provokes the desire,but takes away the performance..."...Liked Good Stuffs "Whiskey Dyck"...we talk of Brewers droop...All part of the aging process LOL.

 

[Tenacity]

Thanks guys, so you guys think it was "Whiskey Dyck" lol? I don't know, I will sit back and think on this a bit more but yeah, I hate when this happens.

Happened two other times that I can recall. I usually can drink and fvck, usually drinking helps me perform better as well, so I'm just not sure what was going on.

Plus, while I know this has nothing to do with the topic, this girl in particular knows a "little bit" about cars v.s. the vast majority of other girls I talk to. So she knows that the new Camaro I just got just has the V-6 in it, not the V-8 lol. I get a lot of praise on my car everywhere I go but the VAST majority of people have no clue about a V6 or a V8, but she does! We talk shyt/crack jokes on each other and she used the V-6 as a joke last night too, and it just added to the overall "pissed off night" that I had with my dyck also not getting up.

Looking back on my Camaro purchase, I know I should have bought 22s instead of 24s, and maybe I should have just got the damn V8 (which most told me to get) but I didn't see the point of a $5,000 additional upfront purchase amount along with higher gas and insurance, when I wasn't even going to be racing the car that much...but the only thing I would experience was a louder "roar" when it started up. Girls do find that "roar" sexy though.

I don't know, I think it was just a bad night. I've had a couple of them before.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I buy liquid viagra from purity solutions and pills from alldaychemist. The equivalent of one $20 pill from Phizer costs less than a dollar. Usually half a pill is enough, so you could have prevented last night for about 50 cents.

 

[Tenacity]

I buy liquid viagra from purity solutions and pills from alldaychemist. The equivalent of one $20 pill from Phizer costs less than a dollar. Usually half a pill is enough, so you could have prevented last night for about 50 cents.

I thought I might be too young to take viagra though? Maybe I should look into buying some and keeping it on the side just to avoid this from happening again.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I keep the liquid in the house. The pills are easier to travel with. I order "Suhagra-100" from alldaychemist. Look for the "double pills" offer.

Viagra wears off in 3-4 hours. I like that about it. Levitra and Cialis take days to wear off. They would be ideal if you were taking a girl away for a weekend.

 

[samspade]

That's definitely alcohol and tiredness. I've had it happen. I just say, "you know what, I'm pretty tired, let's continue this in the morning." Morning = morning wood.

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

Yeah, its not the end of the world. Embarrassing, awkward and off-putting though. With the woman I'm seeing now, when we first hooked up I could manage 3 a night (with help). Last time I barely managed 2. I hadn't thought about performance anxiety as an issue. I also hadn't though about a supplement. 46 seems too young to need to rely on that stuff. I am in OK shape although I have noticed a lot less morning wood. Stress? Age? Blood pressure?

Has anyone here used a **** ring? Any feed back would be appreciated.

 

[Prime_Beef]

Yes,
Get the viagra, pop it on the day you KNOW you gotta perform, especially if it is a chicken you think has potential. O the job right with the drug, then next time you are free of anxiety. If each time you don't get it up, your body is telling you something ain't right about the chick.

 

[Huffman]

Yeah I've had it too. Don't know if it's stress, anxiety or whatever. Being tired and drunk doesn't help either.

I found that my own libido works much the same as a woman's, at least from what I gather. Being comfortable with somebody you know, and who you know won't drop you if you make a wrong move, sex is 1000 times better. With some women I can go 4x in a row, with others not at all. When I have one night stands, if the girl isn't very proactive or experienced, and we've just met... I'm just not turned on that much. Can happen.

I'd give her some excuse or another, go down on her and spend some good sexytime without penetration. Then go to sleep (remember, you're tired and drunk).... and in the morning, hell, it's on!

Don't think too much about jacking off. I experimented with jacking every day vs. only once a week and I've had good&bad experiences just the same. I don't think your general ability is at stake here. It's just your head... you can't just decide to f*ck if the situation doesn't turn you on.

 

[bukowski_merit]

Over the last 5 years - I've had similar things happen from time to time. Maybe 10 times total. It's not all that rare. In my case - it tends to happen with FWBs. The few times it happened with women the first time we were together - well; that spelled the end of that. Nothing we can really do....

Whenever anything like this happens; if she sticks around long enough - I just pause the sex. Tell the girl "Let's take a break from this." Then go and take a pill called "S.W.A.G". I bought a 30 pack on ebay for like $50 a year ago, and still have most of them left. You can find it at most indian gas stations for like $10 a pill; but that's only a price to pay if you're desperate.

There's a reason it works though: http://www.fda.gov/Safety/MedWatch/...tyAlertsforHumanMedicalProducts/ucm393845.htm

They work extremely well. So much so that I basically feel like a 14 year old the next day (random erections for no reason.)

(note: the ones that expire in 2019 don't seem as potent as the ones that expire in 2018 or before. They still work, but based on the missing side effects - I think they either removed or reduced the amount of sildenafil in the pills.)

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

Next time avoid alcohol prior to sex. Alcohol inhibits sperm production and can lead to a flaccid penis. If it becomes a regular problem you can see a doctor and get a prescription for Viagra, but it's expensive though. I paid 10 dollars a pill for it through my health insurance.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

lol this happened to me quite a few times. One is my baby moms. I just can't get hard for her. Maybe its because I've smashed her for 2+ years but idk. I honestly dont care because I get hard with other girls easily.

Also I had trouble getting it up with a girl I met in Vegas. The pu$$y was too damn easy to get that I didn't really get hard until she sucked me off. Once I got it up I fked her as quick as I could and went to bed.