Ok, let me start that i understand that we should only send gifts/flowers when women deserve or have done something to earn them. But ive been wondering if this would be a good idea... I know this girl that works in a sports store, ive been there 3 times and on those 3 times we have been alone for 10 to 15 minutes each time... Last friday she was the most friendly, we talk about the normal stuff, school, work..etc but that day i actually invited her out to dinner sometime, asked her in a very casual way if she liked food, and that i wanted to invite her to go have dinner sometime... She said ''yea why not'' but i made a mistake by not even asking for her number, instead i said ''well you have my number right'' (the store has it) so i told her to text me her's whenever she was on her day off... Heres the thing, she mentioned her bday was on monday (today), is it ok to send something small, flowers maybe with a happy bday card? I think i got nothing to loose.. I wouldnt send anything big or too exagerated just something that lets her know that i remembered and make her think that the dinner is a good idea... toughts?