The response I give when woman ask me; "Why don't you have a girlfriend?" My answer is true. I rarely have time for women. Why? Its because I have Priorities, Hobbies, Goals, Interests, Dreams, Friends and a Job. I have enough trouble finding time to hang out with the guys let alone have a girlfriend. I'm working days and nights, going to the gym, reading books, working on my goals, seeing friends, learning new things, and pushing myself harder to better myself and much more! So, what does my busy schedule have to do with women? I become more Mysterious. I'm not always Available. I have more Confidence. Women don't see me as desperate. More Self - Esteem. Self - Respect and most important you become The Great Catch. Women are bored of all the guys asking them out, flirting with them and giving them attention. I set myself apart by being too busy and focused in my life. Which makes me "Mysterious" and all of the above. Women like guys who are Confident, Motivated, Successful, and know where their going in life. YOU need to take take control of your life and build your OWN world. You can't just sit around waiting for things to happen, wasting your life away. Start making goals, find new hobbies & interests and find ways to improve yourself. You'll notice changes in your life and start seeing results. Which leads you to feeling more confident, and more self esteem. Then you can ask youself; "Whats the next challenge I can conquer or whats the next obstacle I can over - come. Once you make the focus more about you. The more Sucess you bring into the rest of your life. Women will also start to take notice and become more interested. Chasing after you to try and get a chance to enter your world. Forget about: Creating interest, Wondering what to say and little techniques. Focus on YOU and the High Interest women will come. Too many guys on here are putting too much emphasis on getting a girlfriend or trying to find a magic formula that makes a girl like them. When you focus the attention on you, you become the MAN you want to be and the MAN women want to be with.