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If a girl asks "do you have a girlfriend?", what's the best answer?

Discussion in 'Don Juan Discussion' started by nismo-4, May 25, 2007.

  1. nismo-4

    nismo-4 Moderator

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    This question has apparently been a make or break factor for many, particularly me. In most cases, I'm put on the razor's edge because of this question. Sometimes, when you say no, you appear undesirable, even if it is your honest answer. Women do know when you're around other women! The other part of this is when a woman asks how many girlfriends have you been with or how many times you've had sex. What could be bad is if that is a low number; which also makes you sexually unattractive. Times you say yes, you may appear to be a player, lonely, or desperate, which can also be a turn-off.
     
  2. WaterTiger

    WaterTiger Master Don Juan

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    The answer to "Do you have a girlfriend?" should be pretty simple. If you are in a relationship with some one, say YES. If you aren't, say NO.

    If they want to know the how many girlfriends, how many times you've had sex and all that crap, tell her :"I usually don't share private information with someone I don't know well." Then change the subject. This will peak her interest and make her want to know you better.
     
  3. Lust

    Lust Master Don Juan

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    Brush it off with some ****y and Funny, try to have her guess and use her own imagination. Never give out the real answer right away, without making her jump through a few hoops first.

    (I'm talking to a chick on a tuesday)
    Her: Do you have a girlfriend?
    Me: Only on tuesdays.
     
  4. DJDamage

    DJDamage Master Don Juan

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    "i'm not seeing anyone exclusively"
     
  5. mrRuckus

    mrRuckus Master Don Juan

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    "Nah, i haven't had time to sort through all the applications."
     
  6. backbreaker

    backbreaker Master Don Juan

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    i have friends that are girls
     
  7. Obsidian

    Obsidian Master Don Juan

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    NICE
     
  8. PRMoon

    PRMoon Master Don Juan

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    Yeah I do...and my wife is pretty pissed about that.
     
  9. 2Cool

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    Don't ever give out a number when asked how many chicks have you slept with. Once you do that you're in that is that high or low type of thing, and you'll be classified based on this number. Quite honestly, why would some woman care. Be cordial and evasive. Some examples have already been provided.

    "I don't kiss and tell","that's personal", etc. Keep it light so you don't alienate her.

    As far as do you have a girlfriend? My suggestions are:

    If you are dating exclusively and care about your woman, or you're married, then of course yes.

    Everything else is fair game.
     
  10. DJStrawberry

    DJStrawberry Don Juan

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    Her Do you have a girlfriend?

    Me Do you have a boyfriend?

    Her I asked you first.

    Me I asked you second. (point/playful kino when you say "you", touch her nose playfully like she's your little sister)

    Her Cmon, Tell me.

    Me Cmon, Tell me. (playful kino)

    Her Fine, No , I don't have a boyfriend..and you?

    Me I only have two girlfriends.
     
    Last edited: May 25, 2007
  11. Northern Lights

    Northern Lights Don Juan

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    Thats awsome
     
  12. Charm

    Charm Master Don Juan

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    Stolen.
     
  13. Kerpal

    Kerpal Master Don Juan

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    "I've got a few."
     
  14. Gangster Of Love

    Gangster Of Love Master Don Juan

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    "Hmm, This week?"
     
  15. ConantheLibertarian

    ConantheLibertarian Senior Don Juan

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    "I've been holding tryouts for the position, no one's made the cut yet."
     
  16. ConantheLibertarian

    ConantheLibertarian Senior Don Juan

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    Good point. Just say whatever in a calm cool confident way. And as godsgift said, make her know you're interested and get her IL even higher, and you're golden.
     
  17. bukowski_merit

    bukowski_merit Master Don Juan

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    it doesn't really matter... as some have already said - she's into you and that's what's important....

    I used to change my answer based on what i thought she wanted to hear... never seemed to matter... if she's asking you that - you've made her laugh enough, or made her comfrotable enough, or are sexy enough so have her interest...

    my personal answer would be: "yeah but she doesn't care if i mess with other girls..."

    which always sparks their curiosity much more than any joke...
     
  18. Nightwing

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    My response is usually, no I don't have a GF, but I'm seeing other chicks just like you're seeing other guys.

    The part in bold is simply to call them on their BS. Women will demand exclusivity from guys while always keeping their options open. Be sure to call them this when they ask you if you have a GF.
     
  19. BlackJackal

    BlackJackal Master Don Juan

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    I say no everytime I answer this question. If I dont have one I dont have one. If they ask why I dont have one, I tell them I dont want one. If they ask how many women I've had, I'd tell them enough to get by and you're next. Seeing as if she's askin me all these personal questions, she'll dig me regardless.
     
  20. Master Bates

    Master Bates Master Don Juan

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    Do you really think that if a girl asks if you have a girlfriend, that automatically means she's already interested? I get asked that sometimes, and it's hard to tell if it's just conversation or if I should take it as a real sign of interest.
     

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