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I never call her but she always calls me...

Discussion in 'Don Juan Discussion' started by montybrown, Jun 23, 2008.

  1. montybrown

    montybrown Don Juan

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    I just noticed that this girl always calls me when we talk. I never call her. I can't even remember the last time I called her. is this bad? I like her but I don't want her to think like sshes doing all the work by calling and I never call. Even when she doesn't call I have an urge to call her but I'm like nah, she'll call and if she doesn't then she'll call tomorrow. And that's what ends up happening. Is this good or bad and how should I pursue this?
     
  2. WC2

    WC2 Master Don Juan

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    Get the urge for a booty call? Call her.

    Got the urge to be more serious with this girl? Make sure she earns it and then maybe give her a phone call.

    If not, don't worry about it.

    A woman will stop calling you far faster for calling her too much, as opposed to not calling her at all.
     
  3. DrD77

    DrD77 Senior Don Juan

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    according to everything i've ever read on this website, you are doing the right thing.
     
  4. K-Kov

    K-Kov Don Juan

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    good. this seems like a good thing for you. assuming the conversation is playful and relatively interesting and that you do more than just talk on the phone.

    assuming you want an LTR with this girl i'd say it's safe at this point for you to bring something to the table
     
  5. Bible_Belt

    Bible_Belt Master Don Juan

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    That means she likes you. Interest level is high. Well done, and don't fvck it up.
     
  6. montybrown

    montybrown Don Juan

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    I was just wondering if she does for some reason stop calling me for a few days, should I get worried? I mean the best gift you can give a woman is the gift of missing you right? I just don't want to **** it up because she doesn't call and she thinks "see he never calls me" and moves on. i dunno, everytime I feel the urge to call her -- I don't because then it will feel like I lost. I only want to call her when I want to go out or whatever, if Im just chillin at home and im bored and I feel the urge to call her I end up fighting it and not calling. dunno, i guess its the right thing to do..
     
  7. chance

    chance Senior Don Juan

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    my ex gf was the same. i just accepted that she liked calling all the time. even when we first met she called me first. she probably called almost everyday while we were together. school breaks and what not.
     

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