It's not like it bothers me much. My girlfriend confessed me something. Somehow we got to that part of chat and she asked me if I ever got BJ. Said no, since I didn't force it. So I asked her if she had a guy go down on her. She said ' I won't lie, I did. And please don't ever go down on me. The worst feeling ever. And no, we didn't have sex, I'm still virgin. He was so God damn lame I in the end asked him to go home since it was late and watched TV. BTW if we have sex, be careful, thank you, it's gonna hurt,everyone says that " I really think she did bang him, but hey she's been always wacko so... So aside from that , my little hamster is spinning and tell me how can i figure out if I'm taking her virginity or not. Tight ***** ? Bleeding ? She's been training balette(whatever its called) and horse riding , and in those activities you know himen can be broken. Tips on *****lickin , thank you. P.S. Aaaaaand great. Reading threads I got paranoid if she cheated, talking about ***** licking. That happened last year, on the same place she is now. She says she aint there.And the guys facebook by his activities seem to be not in same place with her. Yesterday she liked two of his photos on facebook. And he seems to be not so far away from her place.