I'm sure the women on POF are getting sex from other guys on the side...but I noticed that if you tell the truth...that you aren't looking for a long term relationship, even if you don't bring up sex, that they lose interest. How do you play the online game/phone game etc. without lying and pretending you want something serious? My goal is simply to lose the V card from someone on the site that isn't an UG or fattie (I don't say this to them obviously) but I want to lose the V-card to find out if sex is even a big deal to me anyway. People like alcohol and chocolate and I don't like either, so you never know.