I've been seeing this girl on and off again for over a month now. I've written a few posts about this particular girl over the past few weeks and I'm still trying to figure out what is going on. When we hang out, we have a really good time and she seems really into me in both a mental and sexual way. She has given me all kinds of signs that she wants to f*** and is blatant about her sexual desires. The thing is, our time together is few and far between. I havn't hung out with this girl for over two weeks and I even stopped trying to keep in contact. Well, she just called me randomly at 2 o'clock this morning and just said she was thinking of me and wanted to talk. I didn't talk with her for long, but we made plans to get togehter at the end of the week.
The thing is, I can't tell if she just calls me when she is possibly pissed off at some other guy (guys?) or is bored, or what. I know she has a bunch of other guys after her a**. I have no idea why we don't hang out more often. She flaked out on me ONCE and that was just about enough to make me want to end it with this girl. However, this girl is really cool and hot and I still want to see her. How can I tell if I'm a "back up" guy? And also, is being the back up guy such a bad thing? What do you guys think?
The thing is, I can't tell if she just calls me when she is possibly pissed off at some other guy (guys?) or is bored, or what. I know she has a bunch of other guys after her a**. I have no idea why we don't hang out more often. She flaked out on me ONCE and that was just about enough to make me want to end it with this girl. However, this girl is really cool and hot and I still want to see her. How can I tell if I'm a "back up" guy? And also, is being the back up guy such a bad thing? What do you guys think?