So...my ex-girlfriend of five years who broke things off with me comes into a bar I frequent knowing that I would be there. At first, she was timid toward me until I went to her and said hello. I was with my friends, but she went out of her way to get my attention by being very flirty and punctuated things by telling me that she loves me twice. Normally, I would think she is seeking some validation (even after seven months of basic no contact), but the thing is that she has a new boyfriend that she says she is happy with, so why would she seek validation from me? Is it possible that she is looking to get back with me and is just testing the waters? Our break-up was basically mutual (although she initiated it) due to a personal family tradegy she suffered. Thoughts?