Huffman
Master Don Juan
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I mean, not all girls are talkative. And silence in the right place can increase comfort or, when the mood is right, tension. But still, with a couple of girls I saw recently I had to do all the conversation, and frankly I was a bit annoyed.
You get talking about some topic and connect over it, and honestly it was a god conversation, then the topic runs out. Then it falls to you to keep it going, or change the subject etc. Or, if it's not the first date, maybe you just can't think of anything fresh for the moment.
So I like to shut up and see if she makes an effort to keep the ball rolling. Often, nothing? But still, she wants to see me again.
I like to be the silent guy, but it seems many girls can't do any better than small talk either, even if they're interested. For me, spending time together is not about talking. I know, action dates, but still you're going to have drinks every now and then. Does that annoy you guys too?
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Edited: Obvioulsy the question poses itself "why do you go on dates with girls you can't have good convo with"? Hell it's summer and I want that ass. Haven't yet found the key to being so direct as to avoid conversation altogether
You get talking about some topic and connect over it, and honestly it was a god conversation, then the topic runs out. Then it falls to you to keep it going, or change the subject etc. Or, if it's not the first date, maybe you just can't think of anything fresh for the moment.
So I like to shut up and see if she makes an effort to keep the ball rolling. Often, nothing? But still, she wants to see me again.
I like to be the silent guy, but it seems many girls can't do any better than small talk either, even if they're interested. For me, spending time together is not about talking. I know, action dates, but still you're going to have drinks every now and then. Does that annoy you guys too?
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Edited: Obvioulsy the question poses itself "why do you go on dates with girls you can't have good convo with"? Hell it's summer and I want that ass. Haven't yet found the key to being so direct as to avoid conversation altogether