This girl and I have been "talking" since Mid March, and things officially ended on June 20th. She was not upfront about how she felt, and she tried gradually moving it into a friendship before I caught her doing it. At first things went great, we had a lot of great hook ups... I even went to her college and slept with her in her dorm (not sex, we could've had sex but I denied and I feel pretty proud of myself for that weirdly enough). Then things started going down hill, she started distancing herself and the hook ups became less, eventually we stopped making out and hooking up but we still talked. It all came to an end when I called her up asking what we were doing, and she said she just wants to be friends. She doesn't want me to from her life. The thing is, I don't know if I can stay friends with her. I didn't really know her before we started messing around. Needless to say, she is also a mutual friend with a lot of my friends. I don't want to be friends with her, with the feeling of expecting something more. But I also don't want to be a jerk, and just go No Contact with her at all.