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Boners while making out?

Discussion in 'Anything Else' started by mtllcanpssy, May 2, 2005.

  1. mtllcanpssy

    mtllcanpssy Don Juan

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    Ok So recently I've gotten a girlfriend and taking her to prom (thanks a lot ya guys) First kissing happened recently etc. I was worried and all somewhat about it but I didnt do too bad at all, and through the grapevine I heard that i was a good kisser, so im happy about that. But this weekend we did more making out and i got boners a couple of times (didnt get a huge one but was definitely getting them), but backed away for a little while until it went back. Just wondering what is ya'lls advice for about getting boners when making out with a girl (me and her have been together for about two weeks, and she really likes me. I tried to make allusions to having one and tried to talk to her about it without saying the actual word boner cause i think i was scared to mention it as of of right now but she didnt catch on so i just didnt talk to her about it.) I need to know this cause a couple of times she tried to get me to lie down on a bed, but obviously boners are really noticable when she is lying on top of you, so I had to stop her from doing this, which it killed me cause I so wanted to have her lying on top of me making out and everything! Thanks yall's opinion would be greatly appreciated, thanks guys!
     
  2. Big Eee Zee

    Big Eee Zee Master Don Juan

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    isnt the point of making out to get turned on?

    I wouldn't be embarassed about it.
     
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  3. NYC Dude

    NYC Dude Master Don Juan

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    What are you, 12? If you're making out with a girl and you hope for it to go anywhere farther, an erection is a GOOD THING. Girls, no matter how much they may deny it, love to arouse their men. If she knows that she is turning you on, chances are it will turn her on too. Now, if you said that you weren't getting an erection in bed with her, then that would be a cause for concern.
     
  4. Maeisgood

    Maeisgood Senior Don Juan

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    If you're not dry-humping, then just position yourself so she won't know about it.
     
  5. Layla

    Layla Senior Don Juan

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    of course you get a boner when your making out!

    unless your gay or something......you dont have to try to hide it....its a natural thing, and be proud that you can get erections. I usually have my boner touching the girl when were making out. It turns them on.
     
  6. AdrenalynJunkee

    AdrenalynJunkee Don Juan

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    I kind of prefer to sort of put her in a position where she can feel it. Never know, she might take things into her own hands, or mouth.
     
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  7. J-Unit

    J-Unit Don Juan

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    I like the way you think:) .
     
  8. mtllcanpssy

    mtllcanpssy Don Juan

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    Yes I know that it wouldn't be right to not get a boner, but I think i was just worried it might scare her off this early in the game possibly. Maybe thats wrong's but its what I thought. Obviously I want to get over this hurdle, so give me advice like, what is the best way I can talk to her about without making her uncomfortable, etc. Thanks for everythings broes.
     
  9. AdrenalynJunkee

    AdrenalynJunkee Don Juan

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    If you're already mackin' on her, you must be doing a good job. Just continue to do what your doing. Keep checking back, reading the bible, the main site and other guys' problems to see if therse anything you're doing that should be changed. It's more of a "recognize and revise" type system when you're working on your DJ skills.
     
  10. SomethingCreative

    SomethingCreative Don Juan

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    The worst was one time I was hanging out in a jacuzzi with a bunch of friends and this girl straddles me and I get a boner, although nobody noticed except for her.. I don't think its a bad thing, just feels kind of wierd but it defiantely should happen in some situations.
     
  11. aKademIKS KIDD

    aKademIKS KIDD Don Juan

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    homie, chances are your gonna scare her away if u dont have a boner, shes either gon think ur small or gay...u dont want either :down:
     
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  12. BrokenPath

    BrokenPath Don Juan

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    lol there's NOTHING wrong with boners.

    HAHA.

    i used to have skin tight pants and i'd have my d1ck completely showing because i wouldn't wear boxers.

    show that sh1t loud and proud.

    are you afraid to be a man?
     
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  13. Aztec

    Aztec Master Don Juan

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    Tell your girl that someone in your pants is struggling and you want her to be the great emancipator.
     
  14. Capt.Jack Sparrow

    Capt.Jack Sparrow Master Don Juan

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    rofl dude its alright

    I was making out with some chick i wasent with once and than i felt my boner start poking my pants so what did I do? I lead her hand down there and you can imagine the rest ^_^

    Ahhh good times.:woo:
     
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  15. flyinshark

    flyinshark Senior Don Juan

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    If you don't mind revealing this info, i would like to know how old you are, mtllcanpssy. And how old SHE is. I think the advice we can give you can be more appropriate if we know your ages.

    I think her age is more important than yours here. Oh, and her experience with guys too. If she's young (15-18) and not very experienced, then maybe your boner WILL intimidate her and will cause her to feel uncomfortable. Otherwise, do like all those guys said, be proud of it:D

    There will be one day when you might NOT have a boner when you want to bang a chick, and trust me your main goal in life will become to have an errection and for her to know it when it happens ;)
     
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  16. Ever onward

    Ever onward Master Don Juan

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    I've talked it over with girls I've made out and most find it reassuring when they can "feel" how turned on I am.
     
  17. AdrenalynJunkee

    AdrenalynJunkee Don Juan

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    I agree with that. But you also have to consider her personality. Usually the shy, reserved, quiet girls, not to mention the prude ones, will be more intimidated by your growth. The other types, might just like it. I've had expirience with both. I've had expiriences range from them just looking down, smiling, and continuing to make out, to full out dry humping right in the movie theater. You probably have to judge her reaction, press it up against her. If she pulls back, relax a bit. If she seems to react positively, get into a position where you can press it up against her a little more. A lot of chicks seem to enjoy that.
     
  18. Fitch

    Fitch Master Don Juan

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    He is 17 years old, as stated in his profile.
     
  19. Luveno

    Luveno Master Don Juan

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    Last time I checked I liked it when girls nipples become erect when they're turned on.
     
  20. AdrenalynJunkee

    AdrenalynJunkee Don Juan

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    It seems we all agree. Let her know you've got wood.
     

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