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Bondage fetish

OlympicTim

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Kinda weird posting this on a website with all dudes (or 95 percent dudes) but I have a huge bondage fetish (i can't jerk off to normal porn)

Just wondering how rare it is.
 

CuddleJunkie

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I love shibari, I think it's great, okay? . I love japanese people, awesome people I tell you. I have many japs friends that call me and said "CuddleJunkie, I approve of your tremendous fetish".
 

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A lot of women like it but dont forget to make her sign Master slave contract (seriously ) before you do that thing if you dont want the police next day on your door .
 

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A lot of women like it but dont forget to make her sign Master slave contract (seriously ) before you do that thing if you dont want the police next day on your door .
Those contracts do exist, but they are merely for fantasy purposes. The law does not recognize contracts for sexual services. Making a woman sign anything is pointless, anyway, because later she'll just say that you intimidated her into signing.
 

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Those contracts do exist, but they are merely for fantasy purposes. The law does not recognize contracts for sexual services. Making a woman sign anything is pointless, anyway, because later she'll just say that you intimidated her into signing.
So what do you recommend? To record it to show her willingness or something?
 

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Well, then you get into wiretapping laws. I think twelve states require consent of both parties before you record a conversation.
 

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Well, then you get into wiretapping laws. I think twelve states require consent of both parties before you record a conversation.
Yeah, I mean if you are going to get into **** with a plate to talk with her about recording. I guess that if she says something like "omg I can't believe we're filming this" it would be pretty much a declaration of consent.
It's crazy that we have to even discuss this things to not have problems in the future. ****.
 

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Yeah, I mean if you are going to get into **** with a plate to talk with her about recording. I guess that if she says something like "omg I can't believe we're filming this" it would be pretty much a declaration of consent.
It's crazy that we have to even discuss this things to not have problems in the future. ****.
Or maybe guys should be a little more careful about who they're having sex with. I realize that is an extremely unpopular stance in the PUA community, however.
 

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Or maybe guys should be a little more careful about who they're having sex with. I realize that is an extremely unpopular stance in the PUA community, however.
Uuuuh, yeah I know what you mean. And I agree with you, but at the same time you usually say that we use to take the responsability out of women. And I agree too, lol. So where do we find the ideal half?
 

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Uuuuh, yeah I know what you mean. And I agree with you, but at the same time you usually say that we use to take the responsability out of women. And I agree too, lol. So where do we find the ideal half?
Actually knowing with who you are having sex is the most important thing these days, if she is kind of women who threat , talk about sexual harassment, use word of No when there is no clear reason then it is better to you to stay away from here , because that mean rape and sexual assault charges are on her mind, and she might use it against you when thing go bad .
 

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Anyone got a real simple Shibari how to link. Lmao at myself. Did the whole bad girl/need to be punished thing and now I have no idea what to do with her.
 

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The new 50 Shades movie came out in theaters this weekend. I have no plans to see it, but I am hearing about it already from women who are fans of the book.

Prominently featured in the movie is a bondage item called a "spreader bar." Marketing geniuses that they are, they released their name on actual bondage equipment: https://www.amazon.com/Fifty-Shades-Trust-Adjustable-Spreader/dp/B011E41X8S

The bar telescopes outward; good ones do. There are also fixed-length ones that are very easy to make - it's just a stick with eyelets at the end. They are meant for use with bondage cuffs and quick-links, which is all really entry-level bondage stuff. Advanced practitioners can make almost anything out of rope.

Now if you talk to a woman who has seen the movie, you can talk about it without actually having to watch it.
 
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