Known this girl for a few years, we have always hang out, during this period, we have had many days out, weekends away etc, we have not slept together, got close once or twice but did not happened, I have also been friendzoned, had oneitis if i am being honest, she also dated other guys etc.
So last weekend we made plans to go for a hike, she txted me a couple of days before to discuss the details, and then out of nowhere she said she have to tell me about this massive argument with the guy she was seeing (which i didnt know about), of which the relationship has now ended, sensing the red flag, i ignored it and carry on the topic of hiking.
Fast forward to the hiking day, she wanted so badly to talk about the break up, I initially ignored it but decided to let her vent a little and then at some point later she said,
"you have to promised me to maintain this friendship even if we married to other people", "dont know" I said jokingly, she was so surprise I said that, I then said what if we married each other, her response was "that is a possibility, if I am not married by 40, you are marrying me!"
although I never showed it, I actually felt humiliated, basically what she meant is she felt 40 is her wall and I am the last guy on earth she wants, so I said "not sure about that, i will have to check everything still works first lol" - anyway, during the latter part of the trip she was sulking about the ex, but she also wanted to me to watch a movie at hers after the hike, but since we are both tired plus I didnt want to after her sulking performance. So I said "no, I am going to hang out with H, could do with some(mumble)." she was like "you want sex?!" I said "yes, I do" she just kept quiet and then said I have become a douche lately. After I dropped her off, i weren't going to let her hug me goodbye either.
She actually text me later to complaint about the hug and that I would rather have sex with someone else then spent time with her, so i replied "well, you were tired, so sex and movie is not a good idea anyway", of course she replied saying she weren't going to or ever going to sleep with me ever (and this girl wanted me to married her lol) and guess what, she is back with the ex a couple of days later!
We are back on friendly terms now but the moral of the story? A girl will say anything to keep you hooked and use you where she can, don't let her!
So last weekend we made plans to go for a hike, she txted me a couple of days before to discuss the details, and then out of nowhere she said she have to tell me about this massive argument with the guy she was seeing (which i didnt know about), of which the relationship has now ended, sensing the red flag, i ignored it and carry on the topic of hiking.
Fast forward to the hiking day, she wanted so badly to talk about the break up, I initially ignored it but decided to let her vent a little and then at some point later she said,
"you have to promised me to maintain this friendship even if we married to other people", "dont know" I said jokingly, she was so surprise I said that, I then said what if we married each other, her response was "that is a possibility, if I am not married by 40, you are marrying me!"
although I never showed it, I actually felt humiliated, basically what she meant is she felt 40 is her wall and I am the last guy on earth she wants, so I said "not sure about that, i will have to check everything still works first lol" - anyway, during the latter part of the trip she was sulking about the ex, but she also wanted to me to watch a movie at hers after the hike, but since we are both tired plus I didnt want to after her sulking performance. So I said "no, I am going to hang out with H, could do with some(mumble)." she was like "you want sex?!" I said "yes, I do" she just kept quiet and then said I have become a douche lately. After I dropped her off, i weren't going to let her hug me goodbye either.
She actually text me later to complaint about the hug and that I would rather have sex with someone else then spent time with her, so i replied "well, you were tired, so sex and movie is not a good idea anyway", of course she replied saying she weren't going to or ever going to sleep with me ever (and this girl wanted me to married her lol) and guess what, she is back with the ex a couple of days later!
We are back on friendly terms now but the moral of the story? A girl will say anything to keep you hooked and use you where she can, don't let her!
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