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Right he should a changed that to drink at one of their places and frame it around sex.She might fukk you but...my spidey sense tells me she just wants to make sure she still has you on her hook. Beware the takeaway...
Stupid question from me, but have you already slept with her?If she wants a relationship again she will not put up at this first post breakup date.
I wont make a big deal out of it if she doesn't.
Of course i will make my advances nevertheless.
After this date communication is key. If she is joyfull and flirty i'm back and we may have a proper chance.
I remind you that she is 36, not a 22 yo looking for just sex. Somewhere in her head there is family, kids etc.
I must prove that i can be a stable loving man not only a sexy one that aroused her with his NC and nonchalance.
Balance is key now and i must think clearly.
Am i wrong?
Well, yes. Multiple timesStupid question from me, but have you already slept with her?
Let's see how it goes today. I'm sure that she will do some explaining, even if i don't steer the conversation to what exactly happened.Maybe it's part of being older and more jaded, but when someone shows me once that they don't value what I offer, we're done. There's no guessing, no hoop jumping.
Just say " was too busy saving the world to answer. What's up?"Beautiful girl, 36 yo.
Hit it off for 3 months, smooth sailing till 2 weeks ago when she became distant.
Chased (a bit), we finally broke up (her choice, she said too many things happen in her life and all this crap)
I agreed, said "ok, call me if you ever want to" and went NC.
Yesterday she SMSed me. Did not respond.
She sent another text saying that my non response is rude.
Did not respond to that too.
How to play it from here?
Read my last post. We went out yesterday.The respond with this "Hey, sorry. I didn't know if I should respond - I am dating someone else now and it isn't really appropriate. Hope things are going well for you too."
BAM!
So you disagree with the way i handled the whole situation?I did read that after. Hopefully you can use the sage wisdom for next time .