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  1. Colossus

    When a Woman Turns 27

    I'd mostly agree Des. 27-28 for most women. Interesting to me how women in general do not age as well as men. I see people of all ages every day at my job, and often I see a 30ish woman and think "Wow. You could pass for 38-40." 30 is truly over-the-hill as far as peak beauty and agency goes...
  2. Colossus

    Fornication

    As a Christian I've thought about this quite a bit. I think the 'fornication' command--which is only in the NT as you mentioned--is there for our own good. It's an admonition, because really, sex should be taken seriously and there are serious consequences for unrestrained lust. I do find it...
  3. Colossus

    Girls sleeping with you quickly is not a good thing

    Ive been saying this for years. Both the insta-lay and the girls who "make" you wait are not LTR material. If you keep getting less and less resistance, that's a good thing. If you keep getting the SAME resistance time after time, that's when you should probably move on. They either have trust...
  4. Colossus

    Insane living dilemma.

    No girl who is truly into you will divide her time with another man.
  5. Colossus

    Beware the "Life Coach"

    It's the link in my sig. I never really marketed it so it only sold a couple hundred copies I think, max. It was good to learn the e-book publishing process and actually publish a "book". Totally agree on motivational seminars. There's a sucker born every minute.
  6. Colossus

    Pros vs. Amateurs

    The reality that the "follow your passion" mantra misses is that when you do something for work, as in you are depending on this for your livelihood, it fundamentally changes your relationship with the subject. There is usually a reliable inverse relationship between increasing work and...
  7. Colossus

    Beware the "Life Coach"

    Good post BA. I think thanks to YouTube and the era of internet dissemination, it's so easy to capitalize on people who are uninspired, have no real goals, self-worth, and have never been tested. Blank slates are impressionable. I mean lets be honest the millennial generation is probably the...
  8. Colossus

    Would any of you ever go back to a flip phone?

    Smartphones are amazingly handy tools, but socially one of the worst things to happen to modern women, and men to a lesser extent. No one is doing real sh!t anymore. You know, stuff that requires you to use your hands or your body, get outside, and make something. Do you ever see a woman, say...
  9. Colossus

    What's your long term play with women?

    When I was single marriage was never really an objective, like it is for most people. I didnt fight it, but I wasnt seeking it either. Then when I met my now-wife, it made sense on a lot of levels and was something I wanted to do. Like Atom said, when the DJ is ready, his woman appears. So for...
  10. Colossus

    Potential wife material at the wrong time in my life. Did I make the right decision?

    Konada, I dont think you made the wrong decision, and I'm probably the biggest virgin proponent out there. The reason I say that is that if your clash of values is THAT strong--and you both agree on it--likely this would be a strained relationship. I married a virgin and I was perfectly...
  11. Colossus

    "Retired" reflections on marriage, hoes, and dating

    That's kind of like saying to a doctor, "if you havent had this disease, then why are you giving me advice on this disease?" It's like well chief I've seen 1000 people with this disease. It doesn't make your experience less valid, but there is statistical power in large numbers. I've no doubt...
  12. Colossus

    "Retired" reflections on marriage, hoes, and dating

    My wife is neutral. Never was her dream. If I said to her "wifey, I want an heir!", she would oblige. But I'm definitely not there at this point. Maybe one day, who knows. She's 7 years younger so there's a window. As far as where to find virgins?? You might as well ask me where to find...
  13. Colossus

    "Retired" reflections on marriage, hoes, and dating

    Good to see you're doing well too, Sam! Milano-- I acknowledge it is super uncommon to find a virgin, but I also think it's not quite as rare as you think. Virgin women are like bobcats, to use a hunting/wilderness analogy. You know they exist, there are healthy populations in many states, but...
  14. Colossus

    "Retired" reflections on marriage, hoes, and dating

    Hey guys. Havent posted here in a longgg time! I see a few familiar names but imagine many of the veterans have moved on and newbies have moved in. Maybe a couple times a year I pop back in for nostalgia. After all I spent 10 years posting on SS!! I see a lot of the same themes here year after...
  15. Colossus

    CM Punk Loses To Mickey In 2 Minutes

    Totally true. "Deserve" isnt a huge factor when it comes to fight bookings. There are plenty of deserving fighters who dont get title shots or who get railroaded to make way for big-ticket draws. It's unfortunate that the UFC favors stand up so much. I get it from an entertainment perspective...
  16. Colossus

    Movies: The Painted Veil, Y Tu Mama Tambien, Nymphomaniac

    ^I watched about 30 mins of this movie but shut it off, it was too dark for me. I can see why it was controversial though---those scenes were straight up pornographic. Weird to think how they filmed and acted all that out.
  17. Colossus

    CM Punk Loses To Mickey In 2 Minutes

    Honestly I felt bad for him seeing him lose like that. But, his expectations were unrealistic and I saw this coming. A 38 year old guy with no martial arts or college wrestling background, who started training 2 years ago (and was out for back surgery last year), STARTING at the highest level of...
  18. Colossus

    Your Retirement Number

    With student loans paid off in <10 years, I could realistically retire with ~1M in investments. And by "retire" I mean work 1-2 days per week, or do locums contracts for 3-4 months out of the year. And that's not factoring in my wife working. Projecting retirement always involves some...
  19. Colossus

    Anal Sex

    Any past sexual experience is a turn off for me, but my wife was a virgin when i met her so my standard is different than say, if i were still dating. Prior anal would definitely turn me off. I mean I've done it enough times and gotten off everytime so the arousal outweighed the potential...
  20. Colossus

    Alpha Male?

    Totally agree. Furthermore, I've never met a alpha male in my life who really cared about this definition or went out of his way to be hardcore. And on the hunting thing---these are just my beliefs---but I deplore this kind of sport hunting. It's ethically wrong and the only purpose it serves...
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