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    Instant Attraction and The Truth about Sex

    You're right that no single "tip" is guaranteed to work on everyone. The guys with the most success are always the ones who can recognize the subtleties in people. What makes a girl tick? What excites her? What drives her? What scares her or makes her insecure? Can you answer these questions...
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    I was reading some old stuff from Pook...

    Who cares ... is she cute? Girls can want all kinds of ****... from a rebound **** to a piss-off-my-ex **** to an I've-always-wondered ****. Does it matter if she's "using" you if you want the same thing from her?
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    Instant Attraction and The Truth about Sex

    Why does it have to take longer than an hour? Because that's what the movies and TV shows and society has conditioned you to believe? Have you not considered the fact that many of the girls you speak with actually want you to **** them? Go figure. Perhaps I can **** girls in less than an hour...
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    Feeling like a b@stard...which means I'm doing right.

    I didn't intend for my response to be interpreted on any spiritual level, but the message is still the same and I'm glad you get the big picture. Detachment might get you laid and make you content over the short term, but a detached life is a meaningless one. How can you be happy in a state of...
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    Easiest Foods For Gaining Weight

    Try to get all your protein requirements out of the way as early as possible, because that's usually the toughest thing to consume when you're full and don't want to eat. 4 scoops of whey when you wake up in the morning, and you're already 100g down. Liquid carbs are easy to get down, and if...
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    Feeling like a b@stard...which means I'm doing right.

    I don't know you but I'd wager your feelings of guilt are genuine and probably well deserved. You probably feel guilty because you are misleading and taking advantage of these women, yet you attempt to justify your actions because women may have hurt you in similar ways in the past. So you...
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    Why is it that I never feel like I pushed myself hard enough?

    Soreness is not a good indicator of how well you trained, and you should avoid the habit of depending on that feeling. Focus on progress and not how you feel after each workout. Did you get one more rep in your top set than you did last week? Did you do the same number of reps but add a little...
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    Dbot king of quick lays. Followup you're gonna love this

    The "chutes and ladders" comment was never intended to be sexual. You could just as easily substitute it with playing cards or hot apple cider. The entire point is to be classy and proposition the woman in a respectful manner. You don't have to be a vulgar ******* to let a woman know you like...
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    Dbot king of quick lays. Followup you're gonna love this

    This is awesome. To the OP: keep doing what you're doing. I would be a ****ing liar if I said I didn't fail a LOT in the beginning. But don't stop, because you're learning your boundaries, and you're learning which buttons to push and which ones not to. You'll experiment and improve until you're...
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    SHUT THE F*CK UP... obey your d*ck

    I don't know about you guys, but I ALWAYS get tasered when picking up women... that's how you know you're doing it right :D And yes, the original post was definitely meant to be interpreted literally. Keep up the good work, fellas!
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    SHUT THE F*CK UP... obey your d*ck

    Now that's a tip! Just go out and socialize like a normal human being? You're a GENIUS. That would have made a much better motivational post.
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    Official Routine test

    This is very cool. A few things I've learned that really help: 1. **** success rate. If you're trying to conquer approach anxiety, do the approaches that make you uncomfortable. This is the only way you will improve. Do not be concerned with what works and what doesn't. 2. Approach women...
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    The Feeling of Disconnect Between Current You and Ideal You

    Excellent advice. This is a MAJOR life lesson that can be very difficult to understand if you're unable to objectively observe and deconstruct your thoughts and actions. Everybody loves the idea of uninhibited self expression. We all like to imagine ourselves with unlimited confidence...
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    Instant Attraction and The Truth about Sex

    Power and control is the product of your projections, and vice versa. If compliance is expected, then compliance will be received. This not only creates the perception of power and control, but it directly yields power/control over the people you influence.
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    Your Pinnacle of Sex, Love and Happiness.

    Isko, The two pickups are different because the latter is purely for sex (I'm assertive and sexually forward), whereas the former girl is someone who I'm actually interested in dating/seeing more than once (I'm genuinely excited to see/talk to her). You're always implying a social value...
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    Your Pinnacle of Sex, Love and Happiness.

    Isko, It can be very easy to lose yourself in this stuff. When you get to the point where interaction with women has lost its magic, it's because you've removed yourself so far from the emotional aspect of it that you no longer care about the outcome, and you're just a mindless seduction...
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    Visiting a few years later, some thoughts

    Nocturnal! I was also a regular on the high school forum back when you were here. Thanks for the insight. I think the heart of this forum comes from the advice of those who go and live, and then return to share their lesson. Don't stop sharing. I'm not around too often, but any time I...
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    Made a bet to get laid

    You made this bet with a girl? That's your green light, dude. Have a good night with her and then take her to a private spot and have some fun. I don't know why any girl would make that bet with a guy she wasn't interested in. She's giving you an opportunity... you better take advantage of it.
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    Grams of protein after workout

    For a post workout meal, carbohydrates are more of an immediate need than protein, although consuming 15-20g of protein plus 75-80g of carbs is optimal.
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    Is it crucial to workout lowerbody when you're lifting?

    Yes, working your lower body is critical to building your upper body. In fact, I've had amazing results working all muscle groups on the same day. The full-body workout will shock your muscles into growth. Try doing the following exercises in this order: bench press squats bent rows...
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