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  1. Konada

    Just Realized I Don't Like Dating. Is There A Way To Change This?

    If you just want hookups I believe there are sites out there that, seekingarrangements.com or hire escorts. You don't pay them for sex, you pay for them to leave you alone after that. Other than that, dating is a necessary thing to meet women. Going for women you like helps alot in the process...
  2. Konada

    21 with 4 failed relationships - Any advice?

    I wrote a post recently on how I am running my LTR successfully and am getting married soon, hope it can give you good insights: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/how-to-run-a-ltr-successfully-learnings-from-a-6-year-ltr.275202/ Its hard to give you specific advice if we don't know the...
  3. Konada

    For those of you who got into LTR with HB's who weren't that interested in the beginning but fell in love with you later?

    She still has to be sufficiently attracted to meet you. If she makes it difficult for you to meet her, she is usually not worthwhile the effort. IL will go up or down depending on what she finds out about you as time progresses. While its good to admit your mistakes and work on your game, it...
  4. Konada

    For those of you who got into LTR with HB's who weren't that interested in the beginning but fell in love with you later?

    Contrary to what has been preached here on this forum, anything less than sky high IL is not a red flag. Why should you be entitled to her time and energy if she doesn't know you well enough yet? Red flags are primarily saved for traits that you find are dealbreakers or indicators of a...
  5. Konada

    I feel like I overreacted thinking back - need help

    Like I said in the previous thread, he overcompensated being "alpha" because in reality he doesn't have options and is operating from a scarcity mindset. The woman consciously or unconciously picked up on this with how he handled the disrespect, which is why it led to a whole slew of playing the...
  6. Konada

    Girl flakes as im ten mins from picking her up

    She made it easy for you to reschedule, go ahead and set up the date. Let us know how it goes.
  7. Konada

    Intimidated by very pretty girls

    That's because you expect nothing more from a woman than a hot bod and sex. Hold women to a higher standard in your mind and HB9 anxieties will be less of an issue.
  8. Konada

    I feel really overshadowed by a good-looking man who started at my university

    Its a slippery slope if you let it get to you. Soon enough, your intimidated vibe will show and you will get less women showing interest. He won the genetics lottery, nothing much you can do about that. However, from what you wrote he seems to have 0 game. Your best play is to keep doing what...
  9. Konada

    How did I handle this - don't know if I should give her up or go forward

    You're taking the whole dominant thing too far when it comes to conflict management. When a woman crosses your boundaries, nip in the bud immediately. She even invites you out to talk but you ignored it and went no contact, which is pretty childish behavior. If you need time to cooldown...
  10. Konada

    No Second Date? It's OK!

    I thought it would have been a good excuse invite her over to your place to "make something to eat"
  11. Konada

    Analysis of interation with a girl

    The general consensus here is to avoid mentally damaged women and don't bother learning how to deal with them. Why bother what she is thinking when the only thing is to cut her off like cancer? However, if you are insistent on putting your energy into helping her "get better", go ahead. It is...
  12. Konada

    Analysis of interation with a girl

    She claims to have trauma, complex PTSD, borderline personality disorder, and a whole slew of other acronyms. Nothing for you to learn here because you are dealing with a broken specimen. If you do learn game from this experience, don't be surprised all your future women have the same kind of...
  13. Konada

    How do I play this best

    Why bother asking for advice if you already made your decision? SMH some people
  14. Konada

    Which way to gain sexual experience?

    Try to smash girls that you actually desire. It will not be easy, the first one is always the hardest. Get that first notch and most of your insecurities will go away. Don't waste time with women who you are not attracted to.
  15. Konada

    How to run a LTR successfully - Learnings from a 6 year LTR

    Leading discussions during conflict, providing her a supportive space, running the household and stepping up to handling crises are the major ones I can think of. Basically big items that require a decision maker, the man should be one who is decisive and the woman should defer to his ultimate...
  16. Konada

    How to run a LTR successfully - Learnings from a 6 year LTR

    Agree with the last part. Attraction will never stay the same in an LTR, there are moments where my attraction wanes or I feel myself getting bored. Men and women have the misconception that attraction never decrease in an LTR, that is wrong. Which is why playing the field is important, once...
  17. Konada

    How to run a LTR successfully - Learnings from a 6 year LTR

    That is why having respect for you and your leadership is something you have vet ruthlessly in the beginning. A woman who does not respect you will not let you lead. Also, stay away from masculine women. They are better left for the effeminate simps.
  18. Konada

    How to run a LTR successfully - Learnings from a 6 year LTR

    I noticed that there has been some curiosity in the forum about running a successful LTR and thought that it was about time that I shared with the forum my learnings as it did when I was just a young kid trying to spit game and bang chicks. I'm getting married soon to a wonderful partner and...
  19. Konada

    How to proceed with young MILF as college student?

    She is looking for a provider to nurse her kids, unfortunately as a broke college kid you don't fit that bill.
  20. Konada

    Your thoughts on the latest abortion ruling

    It won't do much. People can just fly over to legsl states to get an abortion. We should see more black market services as well, resulting in casualties. (But if you are dumb enough to get black market services, you are better off dead anyway) Not to mention wealthy people, its still easy to...
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