Glumix
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Hi guys,
This is my first post here because I need to share my experience and to know about your experiences about the following subject.
I am 35 yo and was in a LTR with a 33 yo girl for almost 2 years. She's a hottie. When I met her, there were red flags everywhere. She is racist, has bad relationships with her parents and sister. She is evil. Her own mother told me she's always been like that, etc... BUT I continued to date her as an experience and because my therapist advised me to do so. My therapist is full in the Alpha Male stuff and has tried to make me recover from years of being an AFC.
So, I endured this relationship during 2 years trying to understand and tame my GF. 1 month ago we broke up for the last time because I told her there was no way I would go back in holidays with her if she didn't change her behavior and become nicer and stop the insult, manipulation and humiliations.
She then tried to stay friend but I am in NC mode and told her.
Just to let you know :
- the first time we kissed she laughed at me saying I was trembling
- she was below average in the bed still thinking she was the best and couldn't understand I was bored
- she's extremely jealous
- she's an attention ***** always in need for compliment
- i got ****-tested during 2 years
- she castrated me to the point I suffered premature ejaculation during the last year with her and couldn't **** her good anymore (I could write a whole book about that)
- she insulted me, said I was pitiful, even in front of my friends and my family
- etc...
Still :
- I dumped her twice but she always found excuse and came back
- last year holidays I told her one day before we departed that she will not come with me because she behaved too badly. So she stayed at home and still came back after that. Crazy stuff.
- she cried out loud when I said I couldn't bear an holiday or even a week-end with her anymore
- she cried everytime i left in the middle of the evening because of her behavior
- she cried when we broke-up and she cried when I told her I didn't want to see her anymore
- etc...
She is a LSE, naughty, etc...
I know I was in Beta mode with her but I currently cannot visualize any Alpha with her. Because I am just like, no way any Alpha looking for a LTR could stay for more than a night with that kind of *****.
Did you have any similar experiences? What your thoughts, not about what I did and that relationship, but about that kind of girls? Can you tame that kind of witch/***** and make her behave nicely? What would have happened if I started that relationship as an Alpha?
Thanks,
PS: Just to let you know, this is probably the best exprience I had in my life. I am very happy. I met a lot of women during the last weeks. Working on my self-improvement, etc... and I feel so much stronger and confident now. I understand my mindset way better than before. All good.
This is my first post here because I need to share my experience and to know about your experiences about the following subject.
I am 35 yo and was in a LTR with a 33 yo girl for almost 2 years. She's a hottie. When I met her, there were red flags everywhere. She is racist, has bad relationships with her parents and sister. She is evil. Her own mother told me she's always been like that, etc... BUT I continued to date her as an experience and because my therapist advised me to do so. My therapist is full in the Alpha Male stuff and has tried to make me recover from years of being an AFC.
So, I endured this relationship during 2 years trying to understand and tame my GF. 1 month ago we broke up for the last time because I told her there was no way I would go back in holidays with her if she didn't change her behavior and become nicer and stop the insult, manipulation and humiliations.
She then tried to stay friend but I am in NC mode and told her.
Just to let you know :
- the first time we kissed she laughed at me saying I was trembling
- she was below average in the bed still thinking she was the best and couldn't understand I was bored
- she's extremely jealous
- she's an attention ***** always in need for compliment
- i got ****-tested during 2 years
- she castrated me to the point I suffered premature ejaculation during the last year with her and couldn't **** her good anymore (I could write a whole book about that)
- she insulted me, said I was pitiful, even in front of my friends and my family
- etc...
Still :
- I dumped her twice but she always found excuse and came back
- last year holidays I told her one day before we departed that she will not come with me because she behaved too badly. So she stayed at home and still came back after that. Crazy stuff.
- she cried out loud when I said I couldn't bear an holiday or even a week-end with her anymore
- she cried everytime i left in the middle of the evening because of her behavior
- she cried when we broke-up and she cried when I told her I didn't want to see her anymore
- etc...
She is a LSE, naughty, etc...
I know I was in Beta mode with her but I currently cannot visualize any Alpha with her. Because I am just like, no way any Alpha looking for a LTR could stay for more than a night with that kind of *****.
Did you have any similar experiences? What your thoughts, not about what I did and that relationship, but about that kind of girls? Can you tame that kind of witch/***** and make her behave nicely? What would have happened if I started that relationship as an Alpha?
Thanks,
PS: Just to let you know, this is probably the best exprience I had in my life. I am very happy. I met a lot of women during the last weeks. Working on my self-improvement, etc... and I feel so much stronger and confident now. I understand my mindset way better than before. All good.