Red Pill flexibility/beyond the red pill

[Reykhel]

This is just an observation...

so we've taken the red pill. We see things for how they are. Infinite. There's no problem there.
We see there's an SMV and all that and we're working on ourselves and all those good things..

But what becomes after? Do we adapt into society with our new found mindset in a productive (for ourselves) manner or do we ostrasise ourselves..

It's just an observation.....in my life: I'm having conflict with friends, with family....even with work...don't get me wrong, I love conflict and see it as a positive...however I do notice a divide forming....is it healthy? In some ways yes, in other ways....no

In other people? they get a dose of the red pill and do a complete (angry) 180 turn.....look at some YOUtube posters and you see they have this "need" to prove the red pill is the reality and they get caught up in this kind of self righteous damaging ****e...

what's the solution? this the question........

My opinion? you have to be machiaviellian.....you can hold your beliefs but some situations call for diplomacy, others they call for assertiveness and others...hell you have to be aggressive...

what's the point? you have to go beyond the red pill.....believe what you believe but you cannot apply black and white to every situation. Hold on to the red pill....but be adaptable.....I think a lot of people are heading for a life of structured incompatability with the world..

 

[Genos]

One thing I've realized is that the red pill's teachings are largely true, but they are not perfect. Women are what they are...but they DO value some of the things that the red pill teaches us to avoid. It's very situational.

I take the red pill, like any kind of philosophy, as a set of guidelines (not rules) to consider in life. Ultimately, as you say Reykhel, things are rarely black and white. I try and do things as I feel would be correct; if I don't have any idea of what to do, then I act based on other's experiences and what I've learned.

I believe it was Pook who said something along the lines of, "Don't worry too much about how women think. Be a man, be masculine, and live accordingly."

 

[Bingo-Player]

good post , im in a similar situation

i feel ive had a heavy dose of the red pill in the last 2 years , it probably didnt help i didnt have a massive amount of respect for authority or society before i took it down but now im at a point where im finding everything people do irritating

im also one of those people that enjoys being alone , i like socialising to a point where it fits in with my routine and i like fvcking women but i dont generally enjoy spending prolonged periods of time with people they get on my nerves

the problem is ive learnt that society and the rest of the world isnt going to change simply because i am different

ive got to spend the next 50 years on this planet with these idiots and unless i decide to become a hermit ( thought has crossed my mind) then ive got to find a way to make it work

i do this by searching out people whom have personality flaws , people who dont comply to routines and rules of society , people whom are able to at the very least understand whats happening in the bigger picture around them

these people are quite often not functioning members of society and therefore dont fit in making merging my social circles incredibly difficult

fortunatley ive learnt to master the art of conversation and the ability to adapt to social confines

women i find are more difficult than men to relate too, i dont know wether its the fact they are biologically locked into society by having to at some point become mothers , but i generally find they find it very difficult to look outside of theyre own little worlds

that means to get sex ive got to virtually become someone else which i can do but it becomes tiring and boring hence why i doubt i will ever be getting married

so yes , you are correct there is a level of flexablity you need to apply to the red pill or eventually you will end up in jail or worse dead

 

[parkthebus]

This post is spot on. Listening to some red pill advice and applying it to every scenario will obviously not work. I just use the knowledge and perspective I've learnt from others to improve myself. What's the point in having all this understanding if you can't do anything with it? If my friend is beta as **** I'm not gonna resent him for not having my knowledge. An alpha would pitty the person
Studies have shown high t correlates with high empathy. A natural alpha, a true leader, wins loyalty through love rather than fear. The prior, or variations of it, is always more effective than the latter. So use your red pill awareness to help the world and yourself, not hate it.

 

[NSX-R]

Good post .

 

[sambwoy]

I've had a struggle trying to figure out my identity. Sometimes I wonder if I actually exist or just exist to be used by people with all these commitments, like it has to be work-related, when people ask what I have been up to. Got teased or put-down by one person or another in my past, developed no self-respect and been duped for years by the Disney view on life- the happy ending.

I guess women fall under that somewhere. I hate the social proof thing, other people interfering with your romantic life and the need to prove to yourself you can attract females, to acquire the same social status as the handsome stud, because attracting hot women is part of the crux of the 'good life'.