TL;DR 2nd date. Drinks, dinner, night cap back at my place. Make out but nothing more. Hard to sexualize the conversation. Fairly intense/driven female professional that talked a lot about work and herself. Texted when she got home, then again in the morning to hang out again that day.
Had a 2nd date last night with a girl I met a couple weeks ago off Hinge. 31 yr old tall blond, attractive, former college athlete who runs her own business in town.
First date was mid morning coffee a few days after chatting online. Her idea. Went well, just conversation for about an hour. She was going out of town for a week after that and texted saying "Nice to meet you today. I'm off to **** for a week, but I'll let you know when I get back. Then no contact until she indeed reached out after she got back in town. Exchanged a few texts like How are you? What's new? Etc and then left it at that for a few days. Reached out yesterday morning and asked her out for that night.
Me: Any big plans this weekend? We should meet up for a drink.
Her: Hi! Yeah - let's get together! I don't have any plans that are really set in stone for the weekend. A drink tonight sounds great.
Me: Great, I'll get us a spot and let you know where and what time
I made the reservation, showed up at the time, and she was already seated. Found it funny that she must have told the host she was there for my reservation and sat down before I got there. Anyway...
Ordered drinks, then she asked if I had already eaten. We decided to get a few apps and a couple more drinks. Was there for a while. Lots of talk about her job and pretty serious topics. I had to constantly change the subject to more playful and fun things. Very intelligent conversation type.
Bill came, she offered to split and I agreed. Her car was on the way to mine and we stopped and chatted a little more at her car. I cut the conversation short and said "hey, you want a night cap? Let's go back to my place". She followed me there, I made a ****tail I was telling her about earlier and then I put some music on and played a game where we go back and forth picking songs that we think the other person would like but have never heard/talking music tastes etc.
Moved to the couch, started kino, a little push pull. Honestly it was hard to sexualize/escalate with her as she liked to talk and talk about more serious stuff like life and being a female professional etc. Finally did all I could to lighten the conversation, be a little ****y/funny, then go for the kiss to get something to give. Made out off and on a few times but could tell it wasn't going anywhere else. She was a little awkward then finally she said it was getting late and she needed to get home. This was at 1:30am.
She texted when she got home "Made it home safely. Thank you for a lovely evening. Good night!"
Then again just now "Thinking of going for a hike this afternoon. Would you want to go with me?"
Had a 2nd date last night with a girl I met a couple weeks ago off Hinge. 31 yr old tall blond, attractive, former college athlete who runs her own business in town.
First date was mid morning coffee a few days after chatting online. Her idea. Went well, just conversation for about an hour. She was going out of town for a week after that and texted saying "Nice to meet you today. I'm off to **** for a week, but I'll let you know when I get back. Then no contact until she indeed reached out after she got back in town. Exchanged a few texts like How are you? What's new? Etc and then left it at that for a few days. Reached out yesterday morning and asked her out for that night.
Me: Any big plans this weekend? We should meet up for a drink.
Her: Hi! Yeah - let's get together! I don't have any plans that are really set in stone for the weekend. A drink tonight sounds great.
Me: Great, I'll get us a spot and let you know where and what time
I made the reservation, showed up at the time, and she was already seated. Found it funny that she must have told the host she was there for my reservation and sat down before I got there. Anyway...
Ordered drinks, then she asked if I had already eaten. We decided to get a few apps and a couple more drinks. Was there for a while. Lots of talk about her job and pretty serious topics. I had to constantly change the subject to more playful and fun things. Very intelligent conversation type.
Bill came, she offered to split and I agreed. Her car was on the way to mine and we stopped and chatted a little more at her car. I cut the conversation short and said "hey, you want a night cap? Let's go back to my place". She followed me there, I made a ****tail I was telling her about earlier and then I put some music on and played a game where we go back and forth picking songs that we think the other person would like but have never heard/talking music tastes etc.
Moved to the couch, started kino, a little push pull. Honestly it was hard to sexualize/escalate with her as she liked to talk and talk about more serious stuff like life and being a female professional etc. Finally did all I could to lighten the conversation, be a little ****y/funny, then go for the kiss to get something to give. Made out off and on a few times but could tell it wasn't going anywhere else. She was a little awkward then finally she said it was getting late and she needed to get home. This was at 1:30am.
She texted when she got home "Made it home safely. Thank you for a lovely evening. Good night!"
Then again just now "Thinking of going for a hike this afternoon. Would you want to go with me?"