When you go to a club, it is often far too loud to hear anything, therefore having a conversation is extremely difficult. This is when you are going to have to learn how to be a master of body language, and be effective at using touch and gesture.

Go into a club, and go to the dancefloor, you want to dance with a girl. DO NOT just start walking up to two girls that are just dancing with some goofy grin on your face and do a little jive, you look like an idiot. Here is what you do, go onto the dancefloor, and you need to use EC to emotionally isolate a target, see a girl you would like to dance with, and try to get eye contact with her, and hold it as you walk in her direction, smile a bit and look approachable. When you get there hold your hands in typical dance fashion (one hand up to hold hers and another to go behind her back) this is a very non-threatening position, she may reject you, or she may hold on and dance with you. You also will have to use facial expressions to convey yourself, and also to assert confidence, for example:

When you have a girls attention, and she starts to walk away from you (backing up but still holding eye contact) draw her back in by gesturing with your hands slightly but mostly your eyes to come back. Some girls will laugh, some will come right back, and some will flirt with you by having a standoff. Play with it, experiment with what you can do, if she *****es out, next her. As well, when you are dancing with a girl, do your best to have eye contact as much as possible, draw her into your world, lead the dance, be in control. You wouldn't believe the amazing looks girls will give you if you hold good eye contact with them while dancing.

Key Points

• Be assertive by using hand and facial gestures
• Do not be afraid of rejection, go in with a smile, if she tells you to **** off, laugh at her
• Be going to have fun and dance with some girls, not to score a number or a date, that will come later if you both feel the connection is strong enough
• Try bumping into girls etc as an opener, if you "accidentally" stumble against a girl, it is a great chance to apologize and introduce yourself
• Always stand your ground, if a girl tries to dance with you and another guy, tell her you don't share, if she tries to lead a dance, take control immiediatly away from her
• Be alpha, stand tall, I want you to think about how you would act if you knew you could walk onto the floor and have any girl you wanted, how would you act? How would you stand? What expression would you have on your face? Whatever you think that will look like, I want you to do it
• Finally, you are the prize, any girl should be honored to have a dance with you, simply because YOU chose her, be confident, help things along by making the dance feel natural, and same goes for the approach
• And Finally, Finally, do not end up on death row at the club, and do not be one of the loser guys that stand a foot and a half away from a group of girls and tries to dance and get their attention, dive right in!

--Mission

Ha! I did the #1 thing you said not to do when I was at the bar last Friday (going up to girls and trying to dance with them). The few times it worked, the dances didn't even last.

Hmm...that last part happened to me last Friday once as well marko. I was sitting down, watching, and this HB9 just came up to me, looked me into the eyes, and started dancing. Then looked at me again, then walked off. I have no clue how to dance, I was simply trying to follow along. Attention wh*re?

what if you cant get any eye contact with any of the grls on the dancefloor wont you look like a loser?

The first time I went to a club, I went with a bunch of friends and it made things alittle more comfortable. Basically, I would just walk up to a girl on the dance floor and start grinding. Don't even think twice, just do it.