B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
Her: (Acting Cold, Disinterested, Boring, etc.)
B-L: Are you always so (Cold, Disinterested, etc.)?
OR
B-L: (If she is Boring) Are you always this INTERESTING?
Call her out on her Behavior.
I've found that when I call them out on there behavior DIRECTLY they open up much more quickly.
Instead of trying to get around her attitude INDIRECTLY by trying to cheer her up, asking more questions, and basically TRYING TOO HARD (supplicating), I have noticed that by telling her that I "figured her out" in a DIRECT manner, she OPENS up more quickly.
It may be because you are one of the few that can actually understand her. It may be because you show her you different from everyone else because you are Confident enough to call her out on her behavior and that you are socially savvy that you can read people's emotions.
Whatever the reason may be...
Give it a Try!
B-L: Are you always so (Cold, Disinterested, etc.)?
OR
B-L: (If she is Boring) Are you always this INTERESTING?
Call her out on her Behavior.
I've found that when I call them out on there behavior DIRECTLY they open up much more quickly.
Instead of trying to get around her attitude INDIRECTLY by trying to cheer her up, asking more questions, and basically TRYING TOO HARD (supplicating), I have noticed that by telling her that I "figured her out" in a DIRECT manner, she OPENS up more quickly.
It may be because you are one of the few that can actually understand her. It may be because you show her you different from everyone else because you are Confident enough to call her out on her behavior and that you are socially savvy that you can read people's emotions.
Whatever the reason may be...
Give it a Try!