Not sure if this is the right place to put ask this but... Last night I was with my girlfriend(We are both in high school) and she had mentioned that she wanted to have sex. So we made out for awhile and I got a condom and continued to make out and I noticed I had trouble staying fully erect. I finally got it up and tried go in but I kept losing it and since she was a virgin she was very tight. I fingered her and kept making out hoping I could keep an erection but still no luck so I told her to give me a hand job to see if maybe getting off once would help me later.

We kept making out and I tried to keep her wet well I waited to see if I could get it up but I never could keep fully erected for an extended period of time. This was my first time also, although she has never believed that I was a virgin. Finally she told me it was no big deal and that we could just try another time and told me she wanted to try again next weekend as I was leaving.

Obviously I felt pretty bad about it but tried to keep cool. I never have problems getting erections, I get them very easily just making out and I thought that was the last thing I'd ever have to worry about. Is this normal or should I be concerned? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks

Creeton76,

Probably ALMOST the right place to ask. You've got the right forum, but health and fitness would be a more appropriate sub-directory. I'm sure it will be moved there.

Use the search and you'll find MANY threads extremely similar to this one.

I never shared the same experience with you. But I am aware of the cause. Mental State. It will be a combination of things causing you to lose your erection.

DO NOT seek drug help with this, as it would be a temporary solution.

It is nerves which are causing it. As you are in this situation more and more it will become more comfortable and you'll have less problems.

You sound like a good, smart kid and your girlfriend sounds like she'll be fine with waiting for your nerves to subside.

Try to keep masturbation to a minimum in the times leading up to your next attempt at sex.

Do not worry about premature ejaculation. There is every chance it will happen, its natural. Don't put any pressure on yourself, enjoy it.

Good luck. Keep it safe.

three12.

Anxiety and being nervous. Its ok, it happens.

creeton76 said:

since she was a virgin she was very tight.

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Wtf are they teaching in schools!?

I felt the same way the before my first time. It wasn't ur time. Your time will come.