Basically this girl once said to me she couldnt get with me because her friend (my best friend who once really liked me) would be really annoyed! Its been a while since we agreed nothing could happen, and weve remained kinda friends anyway, we were talking about some random program we were both watching (we were texting) and somehow we got onto her going through different phases in life and this is how the convo went...

Me : "No you wanna go through all the phases in life, just make sure im around for the naked cooking and french knicker wearing phases"

Her :"I dont think either of those can be classed as phases, but still, your currently missing the french knicker 1"

Me "Well thats your fault im missing it not mine. Even then i dunno if i would wanna see it....Dont wanna annoy (our friends name)

Her "Ha very true! And anyway in my opinion, when it comes to these things imagination is better! No disappointments then"

Me "I agree, def for the best! But i wonder how long before our imaginations get too much and we say **** it"

Her "Ah the ever occuring issue of self control! How good that is will answer the question"

Then i had to go out and she was off to sleep! so i just replied by saying "night her name, dont dream about me too much "

So what do you guys reckon? How should i continue to play this, i was thinking just really play hard on the self control thing, everytime she tries talking to me just go "i dunno if this will help your self control, so its for the best if we dont talk right now" and see how long i can keep going with that for, she has avoided meeting up with me because she knew how annoyed her friend would be, and i get the impression she doesnt invite me to places coz she doesnt think she will be able to resist me at times! MOst of our chats and texts etc end up with us flirting like above!

Anyway im rambling coz im bored so ill stop!

Cheeeeeers for any advice!

Wow she won't do **** with your cause of your friend, some friend that is. I obviously don't know how long both of you have known this other friend, but a friend that ****-blocks me is a not a friend at all.

coolguy676767 said:

Wow she won't do **** with your cause of your friend, some friend that is. I obviously don't know how long both of you have known this other friend, but a friend that ****-blocks me is a not a friend at all.

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This friend your saying is a **** block, is both of our best friends! She was the one who introduced me to this other girl who at the time had a bf (the girl ive been texting now!)

When she introduced us, this friend really really really liked me alot, al her friend knew it, but i had no intrest in her like that! Weve become like best friends now but nothing sexual, but she knows nothing about me and this girl ive been texting and me and her both know for a fact that if she was to find out about the fact that a while back we were really into each other (altho nothing happened) and that we were texting like above, she would be really pissed off!

But were attracted to each other and as u can see from above, texts and chats get a lil out of control, but it seems she doesnt wanna meet up with me because of her friend and because i dont think she trusts herself around me!