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Told I go "cold" when she talks about the ex

The_Lifter

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Question pretty much as per title. I've been trying very hard indeed to maintain the "I don't care" attitude when she talks about her previous boyfriends or, in the current case, goes to a party where he is also present. Obviously I've told her that this isn't acceptable to me, and that the only reason people see their ex's is because they need a fallback option. However, am I going the right way about it, because there is a part of me that sees this a looking a bit insecure/needy. I think I may have avoided it by informing her that if she keeps it up, I'm gone. Nevertheless, the question still stands.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Why haven't you asked her why she keeps bringing them up? Better yet whenever bring up your ex whenever she brings up hers. Just keep telling her that your ex swallowed and that she would find you other women to have a threesome. :p
 

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a chick did this to me a little bit ago and it felt like getting hit by a brick.

I mean she shut me up about an ex...

I was talking about an ex while we were hanging out, and she was basically like "ok, we have to go, i gotta go"

LOL

i was like "crap, big mistake, i am being a dumb girl this time"
 
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