Hey, wondering if anyone has any insight or can relate to this:

I met this girl, we'll call her Sarah, through a friend and it was clear she was 100% into me. We've hung out a bunch of times and its painfully clear she wants me to make a move but I always puss out. I want to, but the thing is, sadly enough I've never had a girlfriend, hell I've never even kissed or made out with a girl - this **** is new to me. I don't know how to make the transition to go in for the kiss, or even kissing technique.

It's funny, I spent so much time improving myself to attract women. Now that they're all after me I don't know how to handle it. Anyone have any advice?


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godsgifttowomen said:

You know what to do.

When you're at a point where you're bodies are close you gotta just go for it. Don't even think. 1,2,3 GO~!

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easy for you to say, you god's gift to women!

godsgifttowomen said:

You know what to do.

When you're at a point where you're bodies are close you gotta just go for it. Don't even think. 1,2,3 GO~!

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Yeah, I'm probably just overthinking it.

I'm more concerned with technique anyways, any other advice?

hmm..

I usually let there be a lull in the convo, or right after we have had a good laugh about something and I would look into her eyes and give her a genuine smile and a nice complement.

me: (look into her eyes)
me: you have the cutest two front teeth ever (Smile and hold her hand)
me: (pretend your holding a gun like your actually holding one, but make the hand soft and not tight griped and place it under her chin and just pull her half close or just move in half way and wait for her to move in half way)

Huston we have contact!

She probably gets close to you when she wants you to make a move. Whenever you both stop talking, just touch the tips of he hair and say something nice about it. Look into her eyes. If she lets you do this. Touch some more on the hair and make another comment. (if she pulls back or whatever, it doesn't have to mean she doesn't want you, she could be really shy) If she seems to enjoy it. Look into her eyes, glance away to her lips and back to her eyes. If you made it upto this point you're both probably already moving towards each other and it's a done deal.
Just make sure you do it the next time you're with her, dont wait to long or she'll think you dont want her or gay.

the hand is always the perfect way to tell, from my experience if you can get a chick to hold your hand (and move your fingers aroudn eachothers palms/imbetween the fingers) then thats worth more in terms of attraction than a kiss.

So if she doesnt shirk away, look her in the eyes, move yourself abit closer, stroke her cheek with one hand and go in for the kiss.

To make it easier for you, get close to her, put your arm around her bring her closer to you etc...

Just slowly (but not tooo slowly) go in to kiss her, she will realise and will either move in aswell or stop you. Infact this is what suprised me my first time makeing out. The girl was lieing down next to me, i move in slowly to kiss i was about 10cm away and was going to go slowly in to it but suddenly she rushes up towards me and shoves her tounge in my mouth!

Let her lead! (Thou the girl i first kissed was a teriable kisser) so that you do not have to do as much, she will eventualy realise you are inexperinced, because if you kiss her more you will get better. Thou she will have no way of knowing it was your first.

Whilst you will not be perfect your first time, you will be suprised how easy it was and why you made so much fuss out of it.

Hmm, I can't really relate. I got my first kiss in 5th grade. So, it was more like (her) "do you want me to kiss you?" (me, in my best Bruce Willis voice) "okay". I attempted to lose my virginity that same year (to the same girl). Unfortunatly, I hadn't hit puberty yet. That was an embarassing experience.

What were we talking about, again? Oh yeah, right. The kiss thing. You know what? I don't really have any good advice. I just go with it. If you feel like it's the right time, it probably is.