organizedconfusion
Master Don Juan
for all you guys that still don't understand how attraction 'looks like', i suggest watching the movie The Man on the Moon' with Reese Witherspoon and some dork.It's about a country girl that falls for her neighbor ,some kid that comes along and she windes up liking him yadda yadda yadda... anyways, i know it's a movie and all and i am pretty sure alot of people are like 'yeah right, that stuff never happens in real life'..okay, sure...maybe never happened to you - dosen't matter.
watch the CHEMISTY taking place between Reese and the boy and then watch him with the sister.Not soo much how they are acting but watch for the way they react and respond to eachother, this movie has very interesting scenes where the two of them have excellent chemistry. This is attraction at it's finest- why? because movies are meant to recreate emotions and well..in a sense, life- and attraction, even from movies- you can learn alot about.How? because you may be MISSING alot of cues that girls were giving off to you or there may have been a vibe going on and it just flew right over your head. By learning how to spot the signals visually you can excell at your game even more so..by instantly reconizing attraction signals.
From being in the field,watching alot of movies and scenes were attraction was taking place and becoming very aware of how the intense feeling of attraction takes control of the mind and body- it allows one to become very very good at expressing those feelings and allowing them to arise naturally.Thus ( i said thus LOL!) making you even more attractive in the process, i think that guys feel a tremendous ammount of attraction when they meet a girl they are attracted to, but then don't know how to express their feelings of attraction appropriatly and are like 'duuh huuh :crazy:' .I think that explains why there are soo many guys that are into the seduction stuff in the first place.Guys that naturally understand attraction are the natural DJ's and ladies men of the world. The attraction energy is alive and flowing and it takes over the body and directs it perfectly in everyway to make you the most attractive- body language,eye contact,tonality etc. it all comes out naturally.
Anyways, movies are a good example of this type of energy and taking it's natural course- much like in real life, either you have it or you don't- or you use a bunch of routines to work your magic, whatever works. i suggest people watch movies and 'see' how attraction takes place and to use it to your advantage and help you excell at your game.i don't think many people will understand what i mean, most will just watch and take it at face value and nothing more, but try to really get into their shoes and feel what they are feeling and having the exact emotions they are-this is a way of 'sub-concious modeling';where you are actually 'modeling behaviour patterns',and in this case- modeling attraction phases during interactions...NO, not trying to act like them, NO not trying to conciously copy or mimic them but to just watch them closely..you'll be suprised how it creeps into your sub-concious behaviors. it helps tremendously when you are out and about and you meet that certain girl and then your body is flushed with hormones and all of a sudden those attraction signals kick in, by assosiation- things should unfold naturally because of the unconcious associations you already are making.
Look at it like this, when we are young we are conciously watching mimicing and unconciously making a million and one associations- and we link these actions and reactions in our minds sub-conciously , everything from what appeals to us to how to express our anger or outrage- we sub-conciously are modeling allll the time, this way we are taking control of it and making concious models for an intended outcome, rather then doing it haphazardly.Say growing up you associated the type of relationship yourparents had as cold and distant or maybe they were always fighting- well it's safe to say that when we get older, we may have unconciously made associations to relationships and love to whatever model we may have experianced when growing up-as unloving or abusive it may have been , or as loving and kind as it was.The point is to take concious control of this process and model exactly what we want to model- and movies that contain alot of attraction sequences allows us to sub-conciously model success patterns in being attractive, being anything we want to be - like i said, not by copying or mimicing- but by actually 'becoming' and you become by allowing the images you see to tap into your mind- this happens without effort...
and how does this help in meeting girls? well for one thing, personaly from experiance in the field- once you know how to express attraction in it's rawest form in a way that's 100% from inside of you (everyone has their own ways of communicating attraction ,but i am willing to say that most signals are universal) you can walk into a room and basicly send out signals of attraction and people will respond to you,watch this talking place when you see a really hot girl walk into the room -she commands a presence around her, maybe it's the way she carries herself ,the way she holds her posture ,tosses her hair - whatever it maybe, they are ALL ATTRACTION signals meant to attract people and also to raise her value at the same time, by being seen as attractive- i say, steal her frame and use her exact type of presence but as her male counter part... i have gotten noticed MANY TIMES and i was opened by them, just by first observing her body language,gesters and posture and then when i was the one being observed i allowed myself to basicly mirror her behaviors and movements.i guess we are supposed to sub-conciously recononize people that are like us and become attracted to them..this is just a way of tricking them..well, just to get noticed first...and i do so by stealing her attraction signals.
also ,by watching how attraction takes place- it gives us kind of like a mental blue print for how to handle certain situations naturally when they do arise
i understand that this sounds a little hokey and all - good, don't try it then
watch the CHEMISTY taking place between Reese and the boy and then watch him with the sister.Not soo much how they are acting but watch for the way they react and respond to eachother, this movie has very interesting scenes where the two of them have excellent chemistry. This is attraction at it's finest- why? because movies are meant to recreate emotions and well..in a sense, life- and attraction, even from movies- you can learn alot about.How? because you may be MISSING alot of cues that girls were giving off to you or there may have been a vibe going on and it just flew right over your head. By learning how to spot the signals visually you can excell at your game even more so..by instantly reconizing attraction signals.
From being in the field,watching alot of movies and scenes were attraction was taking place and becoming very aware of how the intense feeling of attraction takes control of the mind and body- it allows one to become very very good at expressing those feelings and allowing them to arise naturally.Thus ( i said thus LOL!) making you even more attractive in the process, i think that guys feel a tremendous ammount of attraction when they meet a girl they are attracted to, but then don't know how to express their feelings of attraction appropriatly and are like 'duuh huuh :crazy:' .I think that explains why there are soo many guys that are into the seduction stuff in the first place.Guys that naturally understand attraction are the natural DJ's and ladies men of the world. The attraction energy is alive and flowing and it takes over the body and directs it perfectly in everyway to make you the most attractive- body language,eye contact,tonality etc. it all comes out naturally.
Anyways, movies are a good example of this type of energy and taking it's natural course- much like in real life, either you have it or you don't- or you use a bunch of routines to work your magic, whatever works. i suggest people watch movies and 'see' how attraction takes place and to use it to your advantage and help you excell at your game.i don't think many people will understand what i mean, most will just watch and take it at face value and nothing more, but try to really get into their shoes and feel what they are feeling and having the exact emotions they are-this is a way of 'sub-concious modeling';where you are actually 'modeling behaviour patterns',and in this case- modeling attraction phases during interactions...NO, not trying to act like them, NO not trying to conciously copy or mimic them but to just watch them closely..you'll be suprised how it creeps into your sub-concious behaviors. it helps tremendously when you are out and about and you meet that certain girl and then your body is flushed with hormones and all of a sudden those attraction signals kick in, by assosiation- things should unfold naturally because of the unconcious associations you already are making.
Look at it like this, when we are young we are conciously watching mimicing and unconciously making a million and one associations- and we link these actions and reactions in our minds sub-conciously , everything from what appeals to us to how to express our anger or outrage- we sub-conciously are modeling allll the time, this way we are taking control of it and making concious models for an intended outcome, rather then doing it haphazardly.Say growing up you associated the type of relationship yourparents had as cold and distant or maybe they were always fighting- well it's safe to say that when we get older, we may have unconciously made associations to relationships and love to whatever model we may have experianced when growing up-as unloving or abusive it may have been , or as loving and kind as it was.The point is to take concious control of this process and model exactly what we want to model- and movies that contain alot of attraction sequences allows us to sub-conciously model success patterns in being attractive, being anything we want to be - like i said, not by copying or mimicing- but by actually 'becoming' and you become by allowing the images you see to tap into your mind- this happens without effort...
and how does this help in meeting girls? well for one thing, personaly from experiance in the field- once you know how to express attraction in it's rawest form in a way that's 100% from inside of you (everyone has their own ways of communicating attraction ,but i am willing to say that most signals are universal) you can walk into a room and basicly send out signals of attraction and people will respond to you,watch this talking place when you see a really hot girl walk into the room -she commands a presence around her, maybe it's the way she carries herself ,the way she holds her posture ,tosses her hair - whatever it maybe, they are ALL ATTRACTION signals meant to attract people and also to raise her value at the same time, by being seen as attractive- i say, steal her frame and use her exact type of presence but as her male counter part... i have gotten noticed MANY TIMES and i was opened by them, just by first observing her body language,gesters and posture and then when i was the one being observed i allowed myself to basicly mirror her behaviors and movements.i guess we are supposed to sub-conciously recononize people that are like us and become attracted to them..this is just a way of tricking them..well, just to get noticed first...and i do so by stealing her attraction signals.
also ,by watching how attraction takes place- it gives us kind of like a mental blue print for how to handle certain situations naturally when they do arise
i understand that this sounds a little hokey and all - good, don't try it then