Quick easy ways to stay in line:

1) Posture, eye contact, tone of voice. You have to take control of the way you present yourself to others. This is something that rAFCs MUST get handled. Do NOT wing this.

2) Get busy. Do somethin'. The worst turn off of nice guys isn't exactly their niceness, but their absolute lack of ambition. You don't want to go nowhere. You have ambitions. Pursue them.

3) Do it for yourself. Do not be a horny dog chasing girls every time. Try to build a great life. That doesn't mean DON'T CHASE GIRLS. It means build a life too. If you spend your life chasing girls you'll end up with nothing, cause they always go away sometime. And even if one stay, she will NOT respect you cause no girl respect a man who doesn't have nothing but her.

Hope it helps someone

You know, given the quality of other posts, I'd really like to tip my hat to you.


The first thing to do is Nosce te ipsum. Know thyself.

I think a lot of potential (and, sadly, some successful) DJs equate success with women as success on the whole. This is erroneous and very unbalanced behavior.

Enjoy yourself! Enjoy your life! Do things that make you feel good and feel good about yourself! Lastly, allow women to enjoy your company.

I do mean lastly, too. The world does not revolve around you sticking your penis in a woman's vagina. It just doesn't. Even if you get laid 1hr a night, 7 days a week, that's still only 7hrs. What are you going to do in the other 105 waking hours a week that you have?

Enjoy a woman's company as a complement to your existing lifestyle, if you so choose. If she doesn't complement your existing lifestyle, ditch her and find one who does.