And why should I?

I know that they want me from they way they look at me.I feel there eyes on me when i turn my head away from them for just a few seconds.

I feel them looking at my lips,my eyes,my chest..

I see there body language change when after I ask them for there number and I ask them for a date.They smile and blush and look at the floor.

Now...my question is?Why should I chase them after they do this?If a woman already gives me all the signs that she is interested and that she has chosen me...

Then there will be no annoying phone calls on my part,no emails,no IM's,no thirdparties,no nothing.

We have exchanged numbers and she will come to me if she wants to further relationship along.

I never,ever,chase.There's no point to it.

If she comes back to me after my initial offer ,then that means she is attracted and interested in me.

I will continue to speak to her after only that.

But I never peruse women.

They are already attracted to me ...or they aren't.

So my whole thing is to become as attractive to them as possible.

To put this in SS words:All I am doing is handing out an sexual offer to an attractive woman from an interested,attractive, non-threatning male.

Sexual b-l,convo,vibes followed by an attempt to fawkclose...and it when it doesn't work.I wait and they coming calling.

It usually doesn't fail.

Add this to everything i said in "Girls are supposed to be approaching you" thread and you'll have yourself a very nice time..

lol..

Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
And why should I?

I know that they want me from they way they look at me.I feel there eyes on me when i turn my head away from them for just a few seconds.

I feel them looking at my lips,my eyes,my chest..

I see there body language change when after I ask them for there number and I ask them for a date.They smile and blush and look at the floor.

Now...my question is?Why should I chase them after they do this?If a woman already gives me all the signs that she is interested and that she has chosen me...

Then there will be no annoying phone calls on my part,no emails,no IM's,no thirdparties,no nothing.

We have exchanged numbers and she will come to me if she wants to further relationship along.

I never,ever,chase.There's no point to it.

If she comes back to me after my initial offer ,then that means she is attracted and interested in me.

I will continue to speak to her after only that.

But I never peruse women.

They are already attracted to me ...or they aren't.

So my whole thing is to become as attractive to them as possible.

To put this in SS words:All I am doing is handing out an sexual offer to an attractive woman from an interested,attractive, non-threatning male.

Sexual b-l,convo,vibes followed by an attempt to fawkclose...and it when it doesn't work.I wait and they coming calling.

It usually doesn't fail.

Add this to everything i said in "Girls are supposed to be approaching you" thread and you'll have yourself a very nice time..

lol..

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This is very solid advice

"I don't chase 'em I replace 'em"
-Biggie

Good post. By being the prize you improve yourself. Let them grovel for you. Not only will you have your own self-esteem through all your hard work in self-improvement, but also the respect of other respected people.

Why should the onus be placed entirely on the guy? Girls are masters at communication and giving hints. If you show good interest back and they don't recipocate, then they really aren't worth your time. It's a good way to weed out the flakes from the more worthwhile grounded women.

How long do you play the game once she shows interest?

Originally posted by Tha Realnezz


To put this in SS words:All I am doing is handing out an sexual offer to an attractive woman from an interested,attractive, non-threatning male.

Sexual b-l,convo,vibes followed by an attempt to fawkclose...and it when it doesn't work.I wait and they coming calling.

It usually doesn't fail.

Add this to everything i said in "Girls are supposed to be approaching you" thread and you'll have yourself a very nice time..

lol..

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explain

It should be like this every time:

- she shows interest by eye contact and/or smile

This is called a non-verbal signal. It's really the only one you can count on for geniune physical attraction from the word go

- you return her interest by holding her gaze and later approaching in a charming and confident manner

Doing it with some patience shows class. Start a conversation by referring to a conversation piece (her shirt, the band) or whatever.

- she throws in her 2cents in good lively tone

Ask her about herself. Her job, interests .. going to college or whatever

- she asks you questions

Get her number before leaving

Call her a few days later. Have a good fun short convo. Give her your number and have her call back or leave a message.

If she does calls back you have a geniunely interested in getting to know you girl. No games after this are necessary. She likes you alot.

Originally posted by Bosshogg
How long do you play the game once she shows interest?

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Once she calls me or approaches me.


If it's a girl I bump into regurlary I will just play it cool.I won't attempt that type of approach again though untill she comes to me.

Re: Re: I never chase women.

Originally posted by bbestar
explain

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Ok.

I try to look good and stay in good shape.

I approach women that give me good signals only.I focus on bl & in general putting out a sexual,flirtacious vibe out to her.

Now when i feel the time to close is at hand I don't settle for the number.I want a "date" right then and there.

Really i'm looking for a fawkclose.That is the goal at first..

I exchange numbers with her... but I don't call.

(I make sure she has mine.Don't let them leave without your number.)

If she's interested she'll call me.

This thread compliments (is part 2 really) of a Thread I made called "Girls should be coming to you..not the other way around".

THanks for responding so quickly...

I need advice for my situation...


Met 3 months ago...Slept together on New years Eve...
Then I backed off...We still hung out a few times...got together and I told her I hate to have a "label"...probably messed her up...
So we`re not actually "going out" but I do like her...

Called her last weekend to hang out she was busy so I said..."If you want to hang out, call me"....So she called Tues and Thurs and I didnt call her back since....I am messed up .....I`m still playin the game but I dont think I should be...

Now I feel like a wuss calling right before V-Day....

Bottom line...I actually like her...


what would you do??

thanks

Originally posted by tmpgstx
It should be like this every time:

- she shows interest by eye contact and/or smile

This is called a non-verbal signal. It's really the only one you can count on for geniune physical attraction from the word go

- you return her interest by holding her gaze and later approaching in a charming and confident manner

Doing it with some patience shows class. Start a conversation by referring to a conversation piece (her shirt, the band) or whatever.

- she throws in her 2cents in good lively tone

Ask her about herself. Her job, interests .. going to college or whatever

- she asks you questions

Get her number before leaving

Call her a few days later. Have a good fun short convo. Give her your number and have her call back or leave a message.

If she does calls back you have a geniunely interested in getting to know you girl. No games after this are necessary. She likes you alot.

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I used to do that,T.But I was wasting alot of time.

Really if i'm not getting clear as day signals(sexual signals also) I don't go.

So right there I elimanted the pressure of knowing wheter or not this chic likes me or is at least attracted to me.

Right there I know my chance of success are very high.That's where the focusing on your look comes about.


Now all I have to do is approach.Yadda,Yadda,I play it cool and calm for a good two minutes,then I start in slowly with the prying..

(Ex:look at her for a good second,look at her lips,then look away for awhile..When she smiles or asks you what your looking at.You respond with "You have a boyfreind?".)


...what type of guy she wants,likes,yadda,yadda,...

Now after a couple of minutes she's smiling like a idiot waiting for me to keep on prying..she'll pry into my life..checking your social proof.

Repeating(mirroring) the same questions...

I play it cool and use b-l more than words..that's where I hit her with a compliment.

(Ex:"You must like spanish girls"..You:"Yeah I like there hair & skintone.....i like yours better though".).

And keep them coming cuz she'll act coy and won't belive the compliment.

Keep the kino to myself even she opens up first.

A couple of more minutes you wanna ask her out first.(Date-close/fawkclose)

I'm not afraid to ask her to come home with me.

Remember that i'm dealing with a woman that already finds me sexy and already chose me.There's nothing to lose.

If I can't get this to happen(and I might have to persist for a few sometimes) I give her my number & take hers.


Now I wait.

Originally posted by Bosshogg
THanks for responding so quickly...

I need advice for my situation...


Met 3 months ago...Slept together on New years Eve...
Then I backed off...We still hung out a few times...got together and I told her I hate to have a "label"...probably messed her up...
So we`re not actually "going out" but I do like her...

Called her last weekend to hang out she was busy so I said..."If you want to hang out, call me"....So she called Tues and Thurs and I didnt call her back since....I am messed up .....I`m still playin the game but I dont think I should be...

Now I feel like a wuss calling right before V-Day....

Bottom line...I actually like her...


what would you do??

thanks

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Well I would have stopped the game right after she called me and if she called me with wanting to see me in mind.


If she would have called me just to talk or whatnot then most likley I wouldn't have called her back after that.

I only seen the number on my phone on Friday...and I never called back...So I dont know why she called?

Would you wait for her to call again? Or call before V-day?

Thanks

Might as well call.Yeah.,lol.

Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
Might as well call.Yeah.,lol.

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I don't agree with everything this dude says, but he makes some decent points.

You may miss out on some action by waiting for these blatant "come ons" by women, but you also save yourself time by weeding out those who don't have high interest. You also cut down on your risk of rejection since the chick is obviously pretty attracted to you.

Nice advice. More guys should adopt this technique.

Dude, realnezz is perfecting the GWM. Finally somebody who follows a theory to the T and succeeds.

Mr_knowit_all

You seem like a guy who wants to argue this point

I saw the negativity in the beginning of this post as well, watched it evolve a little bit, and am now perplexed. I love the technique, gotta throw my own spin in there someday... I want you to teach me what spin I should use. Kinda like pool, teach me some trick shots.

What about the girls who don't show interest?
Those are the sexiest girls of all. Like a devil in disguise, she sets off mystery signals in my mind constantly.

^Yeah this is GW lite basically.Yes it does work I've had some convo's with him here a few years back too.

Originally posted by Mr_knowit_all

You may miss out on some action by waiting for these blatant "come ons" by women, but you also save yourself time by weeding out those who don't have high interest. You also cut down on your risk of rejection since the chick is obviously pretty attracted to you.

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After reading a lot of posts by Realnezz, I think I understand his system.

I suppose it's good advice if you recieve a lot of IOIs. Personally, I've never recieved a single IOI in the club/bar (not counting the stares I get for being so tall), so I'd waste many hours waiting for someone to come on to me. But, if you're getting good IOIs, roll with it.

^You can do it but you need to work on your confidence a lil' more.Maybe on your look also.

Interesting....

TR, I'm sure you're a master-mack. You seem like you're super cool. I'm sure you're swimming in a sea of lovelies. I love the attitude you have.
I wish I had the same, except for the simple fact that for me it's a complete lie.
I guess my point is, if I want sex, LTR or the company of women, I can't afford not to chase. Kudos to you if you don't have to.