“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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A 7 thinks she's a 9

El MonoLoco

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Ha Ha Ha......

I ran into this chick who used to work at the same company that I do the other night at a bar in town.....
She's a definate 7 nice a**, cute, pretty green eyes.....But she thinks way too highly of herself.....

I kind of knew her when she worked with me but I try avoid relationships at work so I just ignored her mostly. I had no idea she was so confused.....lol

So I see her at the bar and say what's up, where u been....small talk and I decide to see if I can get something going with her....During the convo she mentions a few things that just blew me out of the water....I so didn't expect it from her.

The topic of dating came up and she tells me that she "doesn't date much" and that she "never pays for dates" etc.....so I'm thinking where did this come from? So I play some C+F on her just to see what kind of hard ball she's tryin to play.....
I joke around with her about that being the reason she doesn't date much and how she won't get anything like that out of me...bla bla bla

The convo moves on to the reason she wasn't drinking she was there with a couple of friends ( a BIG girl and some dude)......and she tells me this
" I don't need to lower my inhibitions they are already low enough"......and she's the designated driver.

Then I started inquiring about how low her inhibitions are...
She starts telling me that she'll take her top off and not care, dance on bars, etc....
I started to think about her tits so I had to change the topic. Didn't want to get off track.

We talk about things she does outside of work, which she isn't doing right now, and she tells me that she is moving into town.....bla bla bla.....just got a new bed (decribed in detail)<<<<<she wants to f*ck<<<<<

Sorry I don't remember this convo better it was a day or so ago and I've been to busy to post what happpen so bare with me on this.....

The whole time she was making me work, I had to keep using negs on her almost the whole time. She wouldn't budge off her own little pedastl. I still got the #, not sure knowing her a bit from work helped or if the convo inspired it.

I do want to try out that new bed of hers though. Just not sure were to take it from here. I hope the whole workin together thing doesn't hold me back in the friend zone......We kept decent eye contact the whole time, Stupid me didn't push the kino very much but there was contact a few times. She just threw a shield up about the things she expects and then lowered it by telling me about her bed and how much of a freak she can be (with out alcohol)......So I'm a little confused about how to deal with this one.....I'm not used to girls who are up on their high horse usually they aren't very receptive to me....The trick is gonna be setting up a date that isn't really a date (in her eyes) cause I ain't givin this chick squat but big fat d*ck........
 

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I guess these are my questions.....

How am I gonna keep this one from going to the friend zone?

Working together has placed a block in my mind that moving into a more serious type of relationship might be difficult. By serious I mean dating, sex, etc...as opposed to casual small talk friends.Remember I hardly talked to her at work because I don't like interacting with my coworkers in anyway other than as coworkers.

So how am I gonna keep her off her pedastl? If she is even on one....

She gave me some open invites to find out more about her......the whole moving into town and the new bed thing.





Also how do you guys remember your convo's with girls so well?
I usually get so busy during the day or I'm drunk when I go out so I never get the chance to really keep records. Maybe I should work on that.
 

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Originally posted by El MonoLoco
I guess these are my questions.....

How am I gonna keep this one from going to the friend zone?

Working together has placed a block in my mind that moving into a more serious type of relationship might be difficult. By serious I mean dating, sex, etc...as opposed to casual small talk friends.Remember I hardly talked to her at work because I don't like interacting with my coworkers in anyway other than as coworkers.

So how am I gonna keep her off her pedastl? If she is even on one....

She gave me some open invites to find out more about her......the whole moving into town and the new bed thing.





Also how do you guys remember your convo's with girls so well?
I usually get so busy during the day or I'm drunk when I go out so I never get the chance to really keep records. Maybe I should work on that.
I'll try to help you out, since I am in the helping mood this morning.

first off.. she doesn't think she is an HB9..from the sounds of it, she has pretty low self esteem.. you shouldn't have been using Neg Hits with her.. not necessarly complimenting her either, but definatly not neg hits...

any woman that tells you "I don't need to lower my inhibitions they are already low enough" doesn't necessarly need to be neg hitted on


As far as the bed situtation, I will hold judgement.. I had to be there to hear how she said it.. I mean if I just got a new bed and I like it, I'm stoaked.. I don't mind telling someone, even a girl "hey, I just got this killer king sized bed.. it's blah blah blah".. but that doesn't mean I want to **** her... I could see how that could work however

Did the fact that she never pays for dates make you think she thoguht she was an HB9? Well.. most women in general, let alone cute women, never pay for dates... that's just a fact.. hell if I ASK a woman out, I won't let her pay.. I'm asking for her time (if she wants to go out, different story)


The only thing I think you did visibally wrong was not kinoing enough.. that and neg hitting when at least I think she doesn't have very high self esteem... maybe there are some items you are leaving out?


I personally have the memory of an elephant..I remember things in complete detail that happened to me when I was like 10.. my mom used tot hink it was soo neat when I was like 7-8, I knew everyone in my families birthday by heart, and I mean damn near EVERYONE.. cousins, aunts, pretty much everyone
 

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a legit 7 isn't out if this world hot but is always one of the better looking girls around

she probably gets hit on constantly so I wouldn't blame her for thinking she's better than she is
 
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