Man, I feel like I need help. For some reason I feel like I'm losing my touch and I'm not doing so great.

Since Valentines Day is fast approaching, I feel that I need to get myself a valentine, as well as a gf. Anyway's here's my problem:


Ok, at first when I talk to a girl I do get her attracted to me. Well I mean I am good looking, a 'cool' kid, and I'm 'scene'.
But after a while of talking to chicks, I feel like I'm losing that attraction. One of many problems I think I have is I never compliment them. I mean never. Ever. Maybe once, but it was a joke. Another problem is that I feel like whenever I'm out with a chick, I'm not 'going out' with her. It's not a date or a hook up, it's just chilling.

But anyways, there's this one chick I have my sights on, and I don't know what to do. I think she is into me, and I have gotten a confession that she has a crush on me (and the mistake of me telling her I have a crush on her...), but I don't know how to hook up with her. This chick always talks to me online, but I've never talked to her on the phone, which I think I should do. I have her phone number, and she doesn't have mine. Also, at school, I pretty much ignore her until at lunch. And I only talk to her like at the end of lunch after I'm done eating and talking to my friends. And that's pretty much all I talk to her for the entire day. I guess I just try to keep it real, or play hard to get or something. She's never rejected any sort of kino from me, and never tried to get out of a conversation with me unless she had to go to class. But I haven't done anything such as grabbing her ass (she has the nicest ass I've ever seen) or melons or anything like that. She has called me mean before, and I guess I was being a little to ******* like at that point. Also, is it ok to chill with chicks during the week and not on the weekend? Cause this chick is only home every other weekend. Finally, she's asked me to come over to her place to watch a movie maybe sometime this week. Problem is she's asked her dad (she lives with her dad on week days and every other weekend, and her mom the weekends she's not with her dad) about it and hasn't gotten a response back. Oh and her dad is protective. So I'm thinking going over to her place is not the greatest idea.

I guess the point I'm getting across is, what should I do to better attract chicks?

I am going to be reviewing the bible later today when I have more time, but I could use some advice just right now heh.

i suggest grab your balls and go for it, dude. stop *****footing around. she's ready to take the next step, but u arent making it happen. she's been waiting on you for so long, she decided to take it into her own hands and ask you over. if this movie night happens, u should make your move. lets see if her dad lets you guys do it. if not, call her up and go out.

hope it works out for you.

Hey man : - P

Ok once you get the girl interested.

*ASK FOR HER NUMBER
*ASK HER ON A DATE (over the phone after getting her number) the 2-3 day rule still applys to this so don't forget. OR ask her out on a date in person. And to be clear about this. Your not realing saying " hey will you go out on a date with me" So get that out of your mind if your confused about that part. Your supose to say " hey we should go to the movies on fri or w/e day." if she says "Ok" then your in.

Its pretty easy. And while on your date hook up with her .

yeah. I mean she's been wanting to know if I'd ever ask her out for a while now, and she's usually hella shy. I guess she just had the confidence to do that. and I feel like I'm getting in the friends zone. damn!

I'll just grab my balls and ask her out tomorrow at school.

doo it!! yehh boi! make sure u tell me wat happens

alrighty. so I asked if she wanted to go to the movies with me tomorrow. she said she can't. but I could go over to her place tomorrow, however I couldn't do that due to personal reasons. so I dunno now, I guess I'll have to wait till next week or something. she said we should go out on valentines day.

oh and this chick is shy around me sometimes. how could I help her be less shy around me?