Well, I found this board a while back and I just decided to join. I am a senior in high school and already got into university. I have several goals and am starting a huge and major self improvement program that I am self-improvement program for myself and this board looked very helpful. I want to finish this program before I leave for university in the Fall.

My Program:
-Loose Weight and build up my body
-dress nicer
-become more personable
-become someone who is invited to parties etc. (popular)
-become less odd in a way
-become more gentlemanly
-get dates

Any suggestions on books, films, websites, movies, etc. to study? Also, any posts of interst? Thanks.

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Which university are you planning on attending?

Some where in D.C.

Well, maybe you should adjust your goals a little bit.

My Program:
-Loose Weight and build up my body
-dress nicer
-become more personable
-become someone who is invited to parties etc. (popular)
-become less odd in a way
-become more gentlemanly
-get dates

If it's for self improvement, it shouldn't be about getting dates, it should be about being in a state where you will easily date girls.
It's easy to get a date, but if you
-Become a guy that girls want to date
then you will more than likely be sucessful.
Popularity is a good goal.
I suggest reading "How to win friends and influence people."
I seem to be advocating that book alot, but only because it's a great book. Not so much for dating, but for becoming great at dealing with people.

Originally posted by 08aisaac
Well, maybe you should adjust your goals a little bit.

My Program:
-Loose Weight and build up my body
-dress nicer
-become more personable
-become someone who is invited to parties etc. (popular)
-become less odd in a way
-become more gentlemanly
-get dates

If it's for self improvement, it shouldn't be about getting dates, it should be about being in a state where you will easily date girls.
It's easy to get a date, but if you
-Become a guy that girls want to date
then you will more than likely be sucessful.
Popularity is a good goal.
I suggest reading "How to win friends and influence people."
I seem to be advocating that book alot, but only because it's a great book. Not so much for dating, but for becoming great at dealing with people.

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Yea, I meant that sorry if it came off wrong. I will check out that book, thanks.