“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How to be outgoing and definition.

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What does it mean to be outgoing? I always hear this and I don't get it. Is it you go out a lot or something?

Thanks,

Any help apprecitated.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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its not that literal. i think of it more like "going out of your shell". like leaving your comfort zone. make sense?

of course, if you really ARE outgoing, then your comfort zone is a lot bigger, so.... i dunno.

an outgoing person is social. they talk to people, and people talk to them. they enjoy life and let you know it. usually the "popular crowd" shows this characteristic. as it should, since being outgoing gets you lots of friends, and you become well-known.

hope that clears things up.
 
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That kind of clears things up.

How about friendly, is it good is be friendly to girls? Or is it taking away from you being a challenge? Also how does it tie into being outgoing?

Also, if friendly is good, how do become friendly?
 
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One more thing, confidience.

I kind of get what confidence is, not afraid. But how do you get it. I mean I hear, you can't tell yourself to be confident because it won't happen. How do you do it?
 
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friendly, as in, not an *******? yea, i guess.

friendly, as in, lemme fix your problems, buy stuff for u, and be your *****? no.

and as for the confidence question, go read the bible. actually, u should read it regardless. i have a feeling you havent read it.
 
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Yeah your right.

I've read some of the bible but not all, but yeah, at some point I will, if I have time. Wait...I will read the bible, and will have time.
 
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to be outgoing is to be an extrovert. you project your character out-wards, you convey your personality to the world
 
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But don't be weird. I made that mistake, and I'm not a weird person, so it was fake, and screwed things up.
But it's fine to be nice to girls, friendly atleast. It depends on your character.
I have a lot of great girl friends because I'm nice to them. Platonic friends you could say.
 
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