There was a girl I dated for 3 weeks and got dumped by and recently started going out agian. This time It lasted about a week becuase I broke up with her.

Thing is she has this friend and a week before we started going out agian her friend would talk to me , borrow my hoodie , flirt and offer to help me with my homework in class. Then while I started getting back together with my old GF she would tell me to not go back out with her becuase she is retarded and such , she also had arguements with her more often. After I broke up with my old GF she started talking to me about her old relationship and how much of a wuss that guy was.


The problem is that even though she is showing interest she already has a BF ( he is in her grade level while I'm one above her , I'm a senior).

Should I go ahead and attempt to get with her? Does it seem like she just wants a friend?



Sorry , this seemed so AFCish but right now my cofidence is really low right now.

The reason I broke up with my old GF is becuase she blantenly told me to wait a week to see if she can get into a relationship with an old BF and **** buddy and if she can't she will just get with me. I called her and was harsh and now she is ignoring me and I am doing the same.

Thats a good reason for breaking up....about the other girl, just flirt with her but not TOO much. If she likes you, wait for her to make a move. You don't wanna interfere while she has a BF

Well at least you didn't put up with that girl telling you to wait for her to see if she could get back with her BF...that's a step.

Oh, and disregard what the guy above me said. You should never wait for a girl to make a move, especially if she has a boyfriend. You should definately interfere.

/\wait as in move on to a different girl and if the first girl wants to be with you then she'll do it. if she doesnt, then you weren't investing your time anyway...unless youre a playa hater and u wanna interfere in some other guys relationship..

Interfering does not make you a "playa hater" or whatever the hell you refered to it as. It makes you a player yourself.

Her boyfriend is NOT your friend...you owe him nothing and him losing his girlfriend is none of your concern. Worry about yourself. But of course, you shouldn't just focus on this one girl.

It's not cool to deliberately move in on another man's gf.

Absolutely it is. If he's great enough of a guy, there will be no reason for her to go to you...but if he isn't then she deserves better...you.

It isn't fair to take her from him. But life isn't fair. The best should get the best.
I like to work with as many girls as possible, and I think others should persue just as I do.
Of course, if you think it's bad, don't do it, some people have morals.
But she's going to break up with him eventually.