girl gets upset that I can't orgasm with her

It's happened twice so far. First time I passed it off on me being drunk, but the second time I was sober. I just normally last forever, and she kept thinking that it was because she didn't turn me on. Poor girl tried everything, but I ended up having to take matters into my own hands, and even then it took what seemed like an hour of furiously pounding away. At least she got into watching me and fingered herself. I kept telling her it was because I just last a long time, and I'm still getting used to her.

Then after I got done nutting all over her tlts, she started up with the "what are you looking for, because I'm not looking for a relationship right now" deal, which I agreed 100% with but she seemed to doubt me. Then I just sat with my arm around her for a few hours before she kicked me out for fear of her father shooting me or something. Heh.

Maybe it's for the best if I never see her again. I mean, we're probably just not sexually compatible, since she doesn't seem to have the stamina (she was extremely tired at the time though) to ride it out with me. She's really into me though. I was over the night before and I got her wet just talking to her, so I fingered her for a while. She said she was wet the whole next day at work just thinking about me.

What the **** do I do? I feel really bad about this.

punch her in the f*cking head :crackup: nah, don't worry about it, girls are messed up anyway.

I hear ya brother! Most guys are ready to nut before they even slide inside- the insert and squirt.

I have had times where it just don't and won't happen. But I have also gotten good at controlling it. you need to find what works for you as far as controlling it.

Heres one to help hold it off; count backwards or spell words- forward and backwards. takes thought process and takes your mind off what your doing.

Now when your ready to let go; pull her hair- makes her moan or scream and gets ya all cranked up. Spend a bunch of time looking at porn mags or watching it and then have some of those images in your head and play your own little slide show.

Edit; almost forgot one of the best ones; stick your finger in her a$$ and pound away!

Also be ****y and warn the girl that you are a marathon man- and tell her your not talking about jogging.

do you masterbate... seriously?

I had that problem when I started having sex again.. I hadn't had any for 3 and a half years, I had gotten so used to the harder pressure of my right hand, I couldn't get off from a *****...

It took me 1 week of not masterbating at all to fix the problem

I sent her a text this morning to see if she was alright, and she never replied. Called her tonight, but her dad answered and told me she wasn't home.

Unless she gets a hold of me, that's a big next.

I'm not gonna beat myself up over a girl who can't get me off. Too much baggage anyway.

lol this generally happens to me when I'm high on coke. Last time I was pounding away at my gf for what seemed hours before I was even close to nutting. After giving her several orgasm I still couldn't nut and after when she spent like 30 mins giving me a great bj. The poor girl thought it was someting wrong with her, and I had to do some serious cuddling, telling it wasnt her and blabla.

But hey, this is probably better than to have PE.

Yeah, I don't give a **** anymore. I liked her friend more anyway (I've been working on her for what seems like forever), and she wants to go out this weekend and stuff. **** it. More my speed.

Originally posted by monster squad
I just normally last forever, and she kept thinking that it was because she didn't turn me on. Poor girl tried everything, but I ended up having to take matters into my own hands, and even then it took what seemed like an hour of furiously pounding away

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Poor girl you say???!!

The b1tch gets a pounding for over an hour and probably came like 3-4 times and then she's got the nerves to complain??!!

ONLY IN AMERICA!

DjDamage

She called me tonight. I told her to get some ****ing sleep if she wants anything to do with me. I'll already be out with her friend. Maybe I can get both of them together....