An old post from October in the MM forum. I wrote at the end...

Originally posted by gixxer
It's not the case. She's not an AW as far as I can tell. I've dated a few hardcore AWs so I know 'em when I see 'em.

It appears she's between 1 and 2 below with an emphasis on 1.

Originally posted by Pimp-sicle:

1-Entry level Attention W-hore: She's a social girl, has girlfriends and guy friends. Loves the attention she recieves from the guy friends even if she has no intention of hooking up with them, she'll flirt with them even if she knows they have no chance. Now the guys who are stuck waiting for an entry level attention w-hore a pretty much shy, AFC's who are "waiting for the day when she realizes how great they are." Personally I have no problem with these girls, they're not psycho, or manipulative, they like the attention but would stop the flirting before it got too far.

2-Mid level Attention W-hore: She's also a very social girl has girlfriends and guy friends, usually her girlfriends are not as attractive as her, this makes her look that much more appealing to the male population. She will flirt with her guy friends, even maybe playfully make-out with a few of them, knowning damn well that she's leading them on, but she really doesn't see anything wrong with it. Once again, these guys are AFC's at heart who might have been mysterious and DJish in the beginning, but soon fell victim to the dreaded diease known as one-itis. These girls would easily be played by a seasoned DJ and enter a relationship with a true pimp and be loyal to him. However she'd still crave that male attention even though she gets it from her man. But she still needs more. These girls are usually young (16-20) and as they mature many of their attention w-hore characteristic vanish. Its more immature combined with attention w-hore characteristics.

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I'm talking to a girl right now who falls into #2. Never calls, only talks on AIM when shes bored or when she wants me to take a picture holding a sign so she can post it on her MySpace. Think of that whole "I'm a self made Prada princess" attitude @ 20 years old.

I dont have oneitis or anything... But I want to start the new year right. If that means dropping off the trash well then so be it. I know it comes down to what I think is right for me... But I'm sure you guys have all had something similar.

She's great social proof though, but Im not sure that justifies putting up with the AW in her.

Use her for friendship ie social proof.

If she fits the criteria for Histrionic Personality Disorder she'll just be using you anyway no matter what you do be it get into a relationship with her or simply be friends with her.

Being friends with her you'll at least get something out of the deal hopefully and it shouldn't at all be a something that is emotionally destructive in that case.

God i hate these biitches..

they waste soo much out of you

im extremely pissed off from my ex..

cuz the more i think of it.. everything we did was fake.. it didnt mean ****T