“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Via myspace, a friend of one of my friends added me, we've talked a bit on AIM, soon on the phone, and we'll be going out to meet up soon.

Her pictures are those annoying type where you can't really get a good, normal view. However, she does appear to at least be decent looking. And...judging by friends and comments I get the idea that she's attractive.

Anyways, I'm thinking we'd go out for lunch. I'm thinking that would be an hour tops, and I could easily get out of further contact if she a) is not good-looking enough and/or b)a *****.

Do you guys have any other possible ideas, or perhaps things to do after lunch in case I do actually like her?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Regardless of whether you like her or not keep it short for the first date - no rush.

You might consider just coffee like Starbucks so you don't have to deal with food.
 
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Originally posted by flexion_
Regardless of whether you like her or not keep it short for the first date - no rush.

You might consider just coffee like Starbucks so you don't have to deal with food.
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Ah, what's the reasoning behind a short date (regardless of attraction)?
 
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Quest-ce que ce pas Mac?


Any active activity is great. Mini-golf, ice-skating, walking at the park, swimming, beach, frisby (kino?), the list goes on and on. NEVER GO to the movies on the first date. This is what is expected from a AFC (non-experienced guy). Also you can't talk in the movies. But if you have some mad non-verbal skills, no talking is neccessary.
 
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Indeed. But I wouldn't be too active on the 1st date with a girl you havn't met yet. I'm okay with the lunch idea, but I would just to tea. 1st off, you two should talk a little and get to know each other and get comfortable around each other.

Once that's established, so for an action date.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Seeing its a blind date your goal should be simply to meet this person and decide if she is worth your time for a real date.

A blind date isn't the same as the real thing - you both aren't meeting because you like each other - you both are just being put in a situation where you can meet each other for the first time as set up by some external person or source.
 
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