Martini Joe
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Let me begin right out of the gates by promising you cats that this is NOT theory. I have proven this myself in the field many times before. I also want to make clear that the individual concepts in this tip are nothing special, it's the blend that works here.
To begin, a cat that can play good game will always take on a few assumptions. The most popular being a playa that has a little problem with monogamy. It's basically unavoidable, and it's much easier to make use of it instead of trying to be slick enough to avoid it. On the other end of the stick, you've got chumps often struggling with another problem all together: the LJBF. Both issues can be damaging to your game when you fumble the ball, but I'm going to tell you cats right here how to use both of them to your advantage.
The first thing you need to do is to intentionally LJBF a few hotties. 4-5 usually works best, but as few as two or three will work too. Never try to sex these ladies, because these kitties are the fuel you're going to need to keep this fire burning. Why would a cool cat like yourself want to pass up some perfectly fine kitty? Anyone who has read about social proof should know the advantage of it, for one. Attractive women are plentiful, for another. But on top of that, every time you send a lady away mad or disgusted or upset, your reputation makes it rounds in her social circles and it is often possible the bad word will hit some of your future prospects. You need to counter this by having a form that conflicts bad rumor. Sexy ladies don't hang around with losers, period. It's a form of damage control.
Now ironically, I've found that having several lady friends can usually lead to a common result in dating. It's happened to me so many times that not only do I expect it now, but I've learned the advantages of it. It almost never fails that after about 6-8 weeks of dating a fox, she instinctively starts to struggle with the idea, and usually without proof, that you might be cheating on her even if you aren't, simply because of your healthy associations with other attractive women. This usually happens around that 6-8 week mark because she starts to form a few feelings and starts to ask herself and wonder where the relationship is going.
When this happens, and it usually does, not only should you let her go and never worry about who's dumping who, but you should be open to LJBF. You will already have sexed her anyway, or at least should have by that time. Naturally, you would assume that a woman that leaves under the assumption of cheating is bad for the rumor mill, especially when you have several foxy lady friends around, but time and time again I've seen something entirely different happen. In many cases, these women have approached me later on to admit they made a mistake, and I discovered this only because I've LJBF them. I wouldn't have known otherwise. I don't know exactly why they come to feel this way, but I have my theories. In a few cases when this has happened, I've seen other circumstances along with it. One being that one of my lady friends would ask her in shock why she left. This is like an uppercut of reality to her cheating theory, at least I'm guessing. One of the very women my ex thought I was sexin it with not only wanted to know why it all ended, but would tell her how highly I thought of her (I try to rave a little to my lady friends about the women I date exactly for this effect. Remember, these ladies are truly friends, not brauds I'm trying to lay through the pathetic LJBF route). But whatever the reason, what I do know without a shred of doubt is that when a foxy lady admits she was wrong for walking on you, you have achieved a form of social proof that's even better than sexin a hottie to begin with, so long as you NEVER try to rekindle that relationship. Always take it as a compliment and leave it at that. No exceptions.
This leaves the door open for eventually prospecting her friends later on. No burnt bridges. Several times, believe it or not, I have been hooked up with a new girl through an ex or have prospected women who heard good things from an ex of mine.
How do you make it clear you're over a girl? I personally not only LJBF her, but after a few weeks have passed I give her number to the next cat in line. When you date a fox and it ends, naturally a brother is going to want the inside scoop. He wants to be the next cat in her cradle. Empower him, because you're killing two birds with one stone. You're sending a message to her while also gaining the rep amongst men to be a man known and respected because you're a direct source to hotties. This is often why my ex's are more open to hooking me up down the line. I'm always the bigger man and never get bent over BS.
Not the greatest advice for those cats seeking LTRs, but if you like to move on to new prospects after a few weeks, this has worked well for me. Happy New Year, Cats. Have some fun tonight.
To begin, a cat that can play good game will always take on a few assumptions. The most popular being a playa that has a little problem with monogamy. It's basically unavoidable, and it's much easier to make use of it instead of trying to be slick enough to avoid it. On the other end of the stick, you've got chumps often struggling with another problem all together: the LJBF. Both issues can be damaging to your game when you fumble the ball, but I'm going to tell you cats right here how to use both of them to your advantage.
The first thing you need to do is to intentionally LJBF a few hotties. 4-5 usually works best, but as few as two or three will work too. Never try to sex these ladies, because these kitties are the fuel you're going to need to keep this fire burning. Why would a cool cat like yourself want to pass up some perfectly fine kitty? Anyone who has read about social proof should know the advantage of it, for one. Attractive women are plentiful, for another. But on top of that, every time you send a lady away mad or disgusted or upset, your reputation makes it rounds in her social circles and it is often possible the bad word will hit some of your future prospects. You need to counter this by having a form that conflicts bad rumor. Sexy ladies don't hang around with losers, period. It's a form of damage control.
Now ironically, I've found that having several lady friends can usually lead to a common result in dating. It's happened to me so many times that not only do I expect it now, but I've learned the advantages of it. It almost never fails that after about 6-8 weeks of dating a fox, she instinctively starts to struggle with the idea, and usually without proof, that you might be cheating on her even if you aren't, simply because of your healthy associations with other attractive women. This usually happens around that 6-8 week mark because she starts to form a few feelings and starts to ask herself and wonder where the relationship is going.
When this happens, and it usually does, not only should you let her go and never worry about who's dumping who, but you should be open to LJBF. You will already have sexed her anyway, or at least should have by that time. Naturally, you would assume that a woman that leaves under the assumption of cheating is bad for the rumor mill, especially when you have several foxy lady friends around, but time and time again I've seen something entirely different happen. In many cases, these women have approached me later on to admit they made a mistake, and I discovered this only because I've LJBF them. I wouldn't have known otherwise. I don't know exactly why they come to feel this way, but I have my theories. In a few cases when this has happened, I've seen other circumstances along with it. One being that one of my lady friends would ask her in shock why she left. This is like an uppercut of reality to her cheating theory, at least I'm guessing. One of the very women my ex thought I was sexin it with not only wanted to know why it all ended, but would tell her how highly I thought of her (I try to rave a little to my lady friends about the women I date exactly for this effect. Remember, these ladies are truly friends, not brauds I'm trying to lay through the pathetic LJBF route). But whatever the reason, what I do know without a shred of doubt is that when a foxy lady admits she was wrong for walking on you, you have achieved a form of social proof that's even better than sexin a hottie to begin with, so long as you NEVER try to rekindle that relationship. Always take it as a compliment and leave it at that. No exceptions.
This leaves the door open for eventually prospecting her friends later on. No burnt bridges. Several times, believe it or not, I have been hooked up with a new girl through an ex or have prospected women who heard good things from an ex of mine.
How do you make it clear you're over a girl? I personally not only LJBF her, but after a few weeks have passed I give her number to the next cat in line. When you date a fox and it ends, naturally a brother is going to want the inside scoop. He wants to be the next cat in her cradle. Empower him, because you're killing two birds with one stone. You're sending a message to her while also gaining the rep amongst men to be a man known and respected because you're a direct source to hotties. This is often why my ex's are more open to hooking me up down the line. I'm always the bigger man and never get bent over BS.
Not the greatest advice for those cats seeking LTRs, but if you like to move on to new prospects after a few weeks, this has worked well for me. Happy New Year, Cats. Have some fun tonight.
