If you are trying to meet women at bars and clubs, you might want to consider this. Women are naturally on defensive at places considered "pick up" places, as they usually spend their evening being hit on by guys that have hit on all the other girls in the room. They are feeling hunted at such places, and very much on guard against men who aren't interested in them so much as in either getting laid for the night or in feeding his ego with the number of phone numbers he can get. Instead of trying to meet women in a loud environment that is all about picking someone up, why not try places where women are more relaxed.

The supermarket is a great place to meet women. Sure, if you walk up to someone and immediately ask for her phone number, tell her she has great tits, or try some obvious pickup line, she'll be less than impressed. But if you see a woman who seems nice and is attractive, it probably couldn't hurt to ask her for advice on buying an item in the area. Make sure you really don't know so it won't come up later and make you seem like an ass. But perhaps you can ask her advice about how to pick a certain kind of apple or the best way to choose chicken breasts, it might be a start.

Any long line, like the motor vehicle department, is a great place to meet women. It is important not to be too intrusive, because you are going to be stuck next to each other for a while, and you don't want that to be unpleasant. But it is always safe to comment about how long the line is taking, or make a joke about it. If she responds in kind, you will have plenty of time to talk further as you wait.

If you like to read, bookstores are a good place to meet women who probably share your interests. Focus on women who are browsing in the areas that interest you. You can ask for a recommendation of a book. If she has one, ask questions and keep the conversation going. Perhaps you can invite her for coffee if the bookstore has a coffee bar.

If you like sports, sporting events are the perfect place to meet women who ALSO like sports. If you look around, you may find a woman who is cheering on the same team you are. Most frequently, she'll be with a friend, so she'll be less on guard if you casually ask her something about her favorite player or whether she caught the team's last game.

Although it's been talked about a lot, if you have a dog, the park is a good place to meet women with dogs. Not only will your dogs give you common ground, but you know she won't be the kind of girl who dislikes dogs - a disaster date to a dog owner. You can ask her if she knows a good vet, or ask something about her dog.

The mall is a good place to meet women. If you have to buy a gift for your mother or sister, try a woman's clothing store. Ask the woman you'd like to meet for advice on choosing the gift. It's a good way to meet, and might help you choose a better gift. You can ask gift advice in almost any kind of store, and for any person. Ask if she thinks the item you are considering is attractive, or if she would be happy to receive it as a gift. Let her know that you are buying it for your mother or sister, so she doesn't think you're married.

The bottom line is that if you go to a bar to meet women, you're likelier to meet women who are defensive - or heavy drinkers. If you go to meet women in locations where you have interests, you're more likely to meet a woman who already shares those interests.

The difference....

In a bar women will readily spend lots of time talking me and it's not uncommon to get a makeout on the spot, esp if she drinks.

How many makeouts do you get with a total stranger in the grocery store? My problem with stores is that I cannot immediatly escalate. There's no way to tell if she's just wasting my time, so all I can do is go for digits.

I know some guys are better at this than me, so maybe they are not seeing the same problems. What I am field testing now is mentioning I go to church (a lie), and asking cashiers if they'd like to attend to my church if they mention they do not currently go. This might work with younger girls, I've tried it on MILFs with mxed results. We it;s time to go I am going to suggest we do something different at the last minute form now on.

For me bars have worked best thus far. Store convos tend to not go anywhere, and I feel a little weird going for the # close when all we've had is a convo about bananas. lol.

Those examples are for the guys who dont stand out in a huge crowd...dont have enough game to be special to a woman regardless the environment....i do well in bars and clubs but the majority of guys don't end up getting any booty that night. so another environment may be a better choice??

The trick to bar/club pickups is…..

YOU HAVE TO STAND OUT. You need to differentiate yourself from the rest of the lonely desperate robots crowding the girls.

NO it's not about looks....

It's about socializing, confidence, social proof and just having fun.

Of course great looks will HELP they will make your job 100x easier but unfortunately not everybody is blessed with great looks, some of you will need to actually WORK to get pu**y.

Now you guys aren’t afraid of a challenge are you?.......

I myself am great at bar club pickups and luckily for you guys I believe in sharing so I’m going to give you guys my thoughts, tips and techniques on bar/club pickups…….

THOUGHTS

The hottest women…

The hottest women in a club and I mean the hottest the drop dead gorgeous, stunning, breath taking, jaw dropping HB9.5’s don’t get approached a whole lot.

Why? You ask

They don’t get approached because most men are intimidated by them (even after drinking half a bottle of vodka)

Here is what your average AFC is thinking….

“Oh dam she is HOT omg I want her so bad, but as if she would even consider talking to me. She is probably going out with some Calvin Kline model. Instead I’m going to approach that average girl, she probably never gets any guys she will go for me. Dam I wish I was a Calvin Kline model then I could get all the girls to…….. Well I’m not”

The average girl instead is getting approached by 200 AFC’s a night because they all think there will be less competition.

So where does this leave the HB9.5?

She is at a club dancing with her friends getting approached by maybe 2 or 3 scared, quivering AFC’s a night.

Mmmmmm got you thinking hasn’t it….

So next time you go to a club approach the drop dead gorgeous girl and game her. She will be happy to have a smooth, charming, funny guy talking to her.

FORGET THE AVERAGE GIRLS they get all the attention.

TIPS
- Always look your best. Wear good cloths, brush your teeth, use some cologne (not to much) anyway you get the idea….

- Use body language to your advantage. In clubs you can’t talk a whole lot (music is to loud) so you need to relay on your body language to get your point across. It is also great to be able to read body language so buy a few books on the subject, trust me it will be worth every dollar.

- Have FUN! Yep don’t concentrate too much on picking up you need to get out there and enjoy yourself. Your whole life shouldn’t revolve around girls.

- Try to keep your alcohol intake to a minimum. Imagine you were a girl, having a drunk guy groping and winking at you is not really a turn on.

- Dance (You don’t need to be Robbie Williams but nobody like the guys standing on the side of the dance floor scoping all the girls).

- ISOLATE ISOLATE ISOLATE!!!!!!

TECHNIQUES

Ok I’m running short on time so I will type up some techniques later……

im hitting the clubs tonight.....I'll post a FR

Although there's nothing on the list that hasn't already been brought up numerous times before, moved to DJ Tips...